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This Personalized Potato Is The Most Unexpected Valentine's Day Gift

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This Valentine's Day, you could buy your significant other chocolate, wine, or one of the other tired V-Day gifts. Or, you could opt to be totally different and send bae a potato. But not just any potato. A spud with a personalized message, so the recipient truly knows your gift of low-key starch is coming from the heart.

For as little as $7.99, MysteryPotato will mail a potato with your message to your Valentine (or friend, or spud-loving neighbor). It's a little pricier if you want to wow them with a sweet potato (but that sort of makes sense when you consider the fact that we always pay a little more for sweet-potato fries). For some inexplicable reason, the site also offers mailable glitter bombs.

Grateful potato recipients have posted their gifts on social media (it's the only way to find out who loves you enough to send you such a gift), allowing would-be potato givers to get some inspiration for the message they'd like to have inscribed on their tubers. Some are simple, sweet declarations of love. But perhaps the most successful lean heavily on the often underappreciated potato pun.

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Flashback To...Lupita Nyong'o As An A-List Assistant

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It's hard to believe it now, but once upon a time, Oscar-winning actress Lupita Nyong'o was paying her dues as lowly production assistant.

"I just had to be on the set,"The Force Awakens star told ABC last fall about a gig she had on The Constant Gardener while still in college. Her role came with a range of different duties — including escorting Ralph Fiennes to his scene one day.

"Ralph is a very still man on set," the actress reflected in November. "It would be very quiet and that made me uncomfortable. I'd try to make chitchat, asking, 'What's your favorite film? Of all the films you've been in, which have you enjoyed the most?' He was so polite, and he responded to me. At one point, though, he just said, 'Lupita, give me my space.'"

Another A-lister from that film? Rachel Weisz — with whom Nyong'o had a recent reunion. The two women had what looks to have been a little lovefest during a photo shoot with Vanity Fair. (Clearly circumstances have changed quite a lot since The Constant Gardener days.)

The Star Wars actress shared this adorable outtake of herself and Weisz, looking happy to be hanging out together. From escorting a famous actor to his scene to being featured among the best in the business? Now, that's what we'd call a Hollywood fairy tale.



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15 Zara Secrets The Press-Shy Brand Hasn't Made Public

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Zara has been stealthily defining the fast-fashion retail model since the first store opened in A Coruña, Spain in 1975 (even though it doesn't identify as a fast-fashion purveyor; Zara brass much prefers the term "accurate" to "fast," FYI). There may be scads of labels scrambling to keep apace with the retailing empire these days, but its beginnings are humble: Zara was started by a former shirtmaker's errand boy, himself with a working-class background.

Over four decades later, Zara has more than 2,000 outposts globally. Its parent company, Inditex, has a sizable portfolio of labels, all with offerings that hover around the pricing and style of Zara's affordable, trend-seizing lot. But compared to other brands with similar reach, Zara has been notoriously press-shy. Without blockbuster designer collaborations, A-list celebrity faces, nor splashy launches, product drops, or campaigns, Zara has always been relatively absent from the headlines (even if it's definitely overrepresented in our closets).

Refinery29 got the chance to visit Inditex's massive headquarters on a press trip to Arteixo, Spain (a 20-minute drive from A Coruña) to check out Zara's inner workings, up-close and personal. We wandered through the brand's design studios, poked around the pilot stores that dictate the merchandizing plans for every single Zara location internationally, and toured Inditex's first-ever factory (which is still in use today). Here are 15 intriguing takeaways from our intimate encounters with the scary-brilliant retail juggernaut.

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Amancio Ortega, Inditex’s famously elusive and press-shy founder — formerly the CEO, now chairman of the retail empire — still comes into the office nearly every single day. In case you needed proof of Inditex’s massive success, Ortega is currently the fourth-richest man in the world, with a net worth of $70 billion. Ortega, who’s now 80 years old, was apparently there the day Refinery29 visited Inditex’s compound (though we didn’t spot him ourselves, alas).

Don't expect Zara to do a designer collaboration anytime soon, or maybe ever: The concept doesn't align with the retailer's ultra-modest M.O., which favors an anonymous posse of designers over spotlighting any one talent.

“Zara is about team-working experience — and what is good for the brand. The brand is the most important thing, not any specific name," Inditex's CCO, Jesús Echevarría, told Refinery29. "These are the 350 best designers at Zara, and 600 designers for our whole [Inditex] group. They have one very important skill: to be humble."

There's another reason Zara doesn't want to bring in a high-wattage industry player to whip up a one-off collection like, say, H&M, and it relates to the company's near-obsession with customer feedback, and a design process based on it (read: what sells or doesn't). A big-name talent is probably way less receptive to tweaking or scrapping designs than an anonymous, well-oiled collective of designers would be.

At Zara’s design studios, there are fit models on-hand five days week, for its women’s and men’s design teams — they also sometimes will pull random Inditex employees from other departments in to fit items in a pinch, a brand rep told us.

Children's designs, on the other hand, are fitted on diaper-clad mannequins, probably due in equal parts to minors' labor laws and the squirming-and-tantrum-throwing factor of getting kids to stay still for outfit changes.

An entire logistics department at Zara’s command center is devoted to test-driving high-tech store innovations. Here, you’ll find everything from massive LCD screens used as in-store displays, stocked in varying dimensions to determine the best screen size for each type of store, as well as touch-screens in dressing rooms that let you request a different size without having to wriggle back into your clothes and brave the selling floor — and fitting room line — yet again.

Our personal favorites? A slew of self-checkout stations: like the ones in your local drugstore, but chicer. (These self-checkout stations are already in some of the brand’s Spanish outposts.)

There’s a major new addition to Zara’s already-extensive spate of offerings, and it’s poised to hit stores in early March. We can’t disclose much more at the moment, but let’s just say it’s a very zeitgeist-y category, it looks like the much-pricier names that dominate the space, and you’re likely going to want everything. These new, mysterious must-haves will soon be filling boxes in Zara's factory, pictured here.

Zara introduced e-commerce in 2010; currently, the U.S. is the site’s biggest market, according to a brand rep.

At Zara’s home base, there are a handful of completely kitted-out, remarkably realistic prototype stores (we spotted at least one for Zara Men’s, one for Zara Home, and two for women: one for higher-end Zara Women items and another for the lower-priced basics and TRF items).

Every single store location around the world is modeled off of these prototype spaces: “Our pilot stores are like laboratories where all our trends are exhibited. The intention of the pilot store is for our employees — whether they’re designers, on the commercial side, or working in logistics — to feel like customers,” Jesús Echeverría says. “This helps us criticize and figure out what we do not like.”

You know how you swear by that one specific Zara location's selection being far above and beyond what's available elsewhere? Apparently, that's all in your head.

"The trends are the same in every store — but the look and feeling is completely different in each store," Echevarría says. Translation: Yes, every store basically carries the same stuff (especially the most trend-centric items), but the quantities stocked differ from location to location. "The commercial teams at our headquarters, which are in touch with every store location, [decide] exactly what to order for each store. Some stores prefer more denim; others want more suits."

Currently, Zara’s most successful markets are in NYC, Milan (pictured), and Shanghai, according to Echevarría. He adds, unsurprisingly, that all of Zara's major city locations beat out sales at its non-metropolis outposts.

These days, womenswear accounts for 60% of Zara’s sales, while menswear comprises slightly over 20%, and children’s clothing amasses slightly less than 20%, according to Echevarría.

Zara has an ultra futuristic-looking “data processing center,” which debuted a year-and-a-half ago. It’s open 24 hours a day, and it connects with all of the retailer's stores globally to process all of the quantitative stuff (ie. sales stats) in real-time.

A separate team handles the qualitative customer feedback, and they sit on a different floor, alongside the design teams. This feedback is funneled from each store manager to a regional manager who compiles all the observations, overheards, and other forms of customer feedback.

Since 2009, all of of Zara’s stores have been in the process of reducing energy consumption by 30% and water consumption by 50%, as part of its multi-pronged “Right to Wear” social responsibility plan. "We plan to have this program in 100% of our stores by 2020,” Echevarría says. Check out all of the company's social responsibility goals here.

Zara’s parent company, Inditex, has a whopping eight brands in its portfolio; you may be familiar with menswear brand Massimo Dutti, which arrived stateside in 2012. Perhaps you’ve run across its younger-skewing lines, like Pull&Bear or Stradivarius (no, that's not a sheet music store contrary to what the name might imply), while traveling to certain European cities.

But R29’s editors were kind of obsessed with the company’s lingerie, loungewear, and activewear line, Oysho— think leggings on Lululemon levels and excellent underpinnings à la Cosabella or Negative, but a lot cheaper. It’s not available in the U.S. yet (not even online, alas). But given Inditex’s aggressive expansion patterns, we’re hoping it’ll come here soon enough…

Which category is the absolute most demanding to produce? It’s the stuff for children, a.k.a. the most high-maintenance set of shoppers around. Zara Kids clothing has the most compliance requirements of all, thanks to factors like fire resistance and non-choking-risk buttons.

Speaking of its pint-sized designs… Stateside, Zara was apparently best known for its kids’ clothing until it opened its massive U.S. flagship on Fifth Avenue and 52nd Street in 2012 (its sixth location at the time), according to Echevarría.



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20 Newbie Models Shattering The Industry's Definition Of Beauty

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Look around any bustling city, and what are you typically met with? A crowd of people with different skin tones, features, hairstyles, backgrounds, and the like. Shift your focus to the fashion or beauty worlds, and that hasn't always been the case. But it looks as though the two industries are finally making strides to reflect that cultural and aesthetic variety. Just ask Maria Borges, Hari Nef, or Barbie Ferreira: Representations of attractiveness are definitely changing.

These are the individuals we want to call out today. While we see a series of similar pretty faces pop up season after season on the runway, it's the ones with strong, unique beauty identities that catch our eye and hold our gaze. They're the ones with textured, or even no, hair among a sea of straight and long. Those with striking features that might be deemed "weird" in another setting. They bring a bit of diversity to a uniform crowd.

Ahead, we highlight these bold beauties. Some have already garnered the attention of the fashion and beauty industries, but we expect their spotlights to shine even brighter this upcoming season.

Kris Gottschalk
We love a good androgynous moment, and German model Kris Gottschalk has been serving them up left and right. She made her runway debut during Public School's menswear show, and has appeared in both a Givenchy runway show and ad campaign.

But the backstory behind her buzzed haircut is what inspires us the most about this up-and-comer. She ended up shaving her head after surviving a horrific motorcycle accident and, since then, her career and life have never been the same. "All of a sudden, I saw people that I had never seen before in my three years or so in New York; a lot of casting directors and photographers who were really interested in [my] story," she told Nylon. "Before, I went to castings and I just played ‘the blondie.’ Now, I go and I’m myself. I have short hair and I wear whatever I want."

Poppy Okotcha
We saw an uptick in natural hair on the runway last season, and Poppy Okotcha is one of the handful of models heralding this movement. The 19-year-old has walked in Chloé, Vivienne Westwood, and Alberta Ferretti so far in her blossoming career, and her textured 'fro and babydoll features have made for a refreshing appearance at all three.

Rhiannon McConnell
Fresh freckle-face Rhiannon McConnell has only been on the scene for a short time but with Chanel, Gucci, and an i-D feature already under her belt, we're going to go ahead and say this young gun has big things in store for 2016.

Yuka Mannami
We're not the only ones to have fallen head over heels in love with Japanese model Yuka Mannami and her adorably fierce baby bangs. Her very first runway show was Fendi Haute Couture in Tokyo, and the model continued her streak by walking for the brand on exclusive this past season. We can't wait to see more of Mannami and her fringe both backstage and on the runways.

Alice Metza
L.A. native Alice Metza and her unique look (she has German, Cherokee, and Belizian roots) were a force to be reckoned with on the runway during the fall/winter season. Not to mention her debut at Proenza Schouler, and walking Marc Jacobs, Prada, and Valentino both during the spring/summer season and this past couture week.

But it's not only her features that set her apart — her eccentric personality and commandeering presence on the runway only add to her appeal.

Hari Nef
Model/actress Hari Nef first made headlines this summer when she became the first transgender model signed to IMG. Nef's name reappeared in the media just last month when she made her Milan Fashion Week debut hitting the runway for Gucci Menswear. In one of the only industries that both welcomes and celebrates gender fluidity, it's nice to see more and more trans models representing for the community in visible and boundary-pushing ways.

Frederikke Sofie
With a loose, tousled curly mane like Frederikke Sofie's, it's hard not to take notice. Stella McCartney, Tommy Hilfiger, and Céline are just some of the designers that have managed to book this classic beauty (Céline snagged her for an exclusive and campaign, FYI). We're sure she's going to become even more of a hot commodity in the seasons to come.

Nirvana Naves
Having nabbed an exclusive at the show of all shows — Prada — Nirvana Naves has "budding star" written all over her. The Dutch curly-haired showstopper made her debut opening up for J.W.Anderson in London, followed by showings at Hermès, Valentino, and Maison Margiela this past couture season.

Karly Loyce
Karly Loyce is the owner of another prominent 'fro. Her name has been everywhere recently, from her badass Céline campaign (a spot previously held by Joan Didion) to appearing on the cover of i-D's 35th-year anniversary issue. Not to mention all over the runway: walking at big-name shows like Chanel, Stella McCartney, Alexander McQueen, Dolce & Gabbana, Marc Jacobs, Calvin Klein, Oscar de la Renta, and DVF (and those are just the big ones).

Peyton Knight
It's hard to forget a bold bowl-cut-and-bang combo like young Peyton's — nor do we necessarily want to. The 17-year-old has been posing for the camera since the tender age of 11, but appeared in her first show last season when she was picked for an Alexander Wang exclusive. There, hairstylist Guido Palau gave her this standout mod cut.

Varya Shutova
Another hair transformation at the hands of Guido Palau is that of newcomer Varya Shutova. According to Vogue, Shutova had her naturally strawberry-blond loose curls dyed fiery red for Marc Jacobs' fall 2015 campaign. And while the contrast of the Russian model's blond eyebrows and fair skin with her red hair may have garnered her some teasing as a kid, it's definitely made her stand out on the runway.

Ari Westphal
First catching our attention with herGolden Girls -inspired locks this past season, Westphal has definitely made an imprint on the industry with her short, curled 'do. The Brazilian model was cast in Chloé's recent campaign (we'll forgive the mullet treatment her pixie was forced to undergo), and if her hair doesn't draw you in, her mesmerizing eyes will.

Lula Kenfe
Ethiopian model Lula Kenfe may not have received her "big runway break" just yet, but we anticipate it's not too far off. Her envy-inducing bone structure, chocolate skin, and lion-esque mane aren't easily forgotten, after all.

Hyun Ji Shin
Hyun Ji Shin not only took the crown on Korea's Next Top Model, but hit international fame once she walked for Prada in Milan. Her schedule's been nonstop work, work, work, since then, strutting her stuff at shows like Dries van Noten, Coach, DKNY, Elie Saab, Rodarte, and Public School.

Pooja Mor
Pooja Mor left the world of engineering to become a model, despite her parents' disapproval. This may be one of the cases when mom and dad aren't always right, because Mor's fresh face is exactly what the beauty world needs.

Nicole Atieno
Vogue included Nicole Atieno as a must-watch model of 2016, and we’re here to second that statement. She's a testament to Black-girl magic everywhere (as well as the beauty of short hair), and though her résumé isn't very long as of yet, with three Gucci shows and an ad feature under her belt, we think her potential pretty much speaks for itself.

Olivia Jansing
Olivia Jansing came onto the scene in a major way — complete with sculpted, insanely chiseled cheekbones. She's already walked alongside seasoned models in shows like Versace, Alexander Wang, Balenciaga, and Valentino.

Lameka Fox
Not many can say they've gained model fame from Instagram, but Lameka Fox isn't your average catwalker, clearly. Plucked from social media by one of the most famous agencies in the world, Fox made her grand debut at Marc Jacobs’ spring 2016 resort show, and the industry's had its eye on the buzz-worthy beauty ever since.

Mathilde Brandi
Watch out Cara Delevingne, there's a new bushy-browed model in town. The Danish newbie's blue eyes and carefree beauty have appeared at top-tier shows like Céline, Calvin Klein, and Coach.

Sahara Lin
You’re probably wondering why Sahara Lin is the only model of the bunch without a runway photo. Well, that’s because the young sprout has yet to make her catwalk debut. But let us make the case that this is her season: She was a model at Pat McGrath’s makeup-collection extravaganza (also known as cool-girl central), starred in Hood by Air x Empire's lookbook, and has a personality that doesn’t quit. Is that not the recipe for ultimate model fame?

Oh, and did we forget to mention she’s also got a mouth full of metal? Now that’s something you don’t see very often in the industry.

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Walking Dead Star Almost Quit After This Gruesome Scene

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You've got to have nerves of steel and a strong stomach to work on the set of The Walking Dead. You just never know who's going to be devoured by zombies, take a sword to the head, or be turned into a hamburger.

Lauren Cohan, who plays Maggie on the AMC show, has seen her share of traumatic scenes, but one in particular almost sent her packing. And now, it wasn't Glenn falling off that dumpster into a crowd of flesh-eating zombies.

Cohan spoke about nearly reaching her breaking point during an appearance on Inside the Actors Studio, airing February 11.

"The script where Maggie has to give the character Lori a C-section to save the baby that becomes baby Judith," Cohan revealed, referencing a scene in season 3. "We all live in the same apartment building — we're ridiculously incestuous in this cast — so I go two doors down and I knock on Steven [Yuen]'s door and I said, 'I have to leave the show. I don't think I can do it.' It affects you so deeply to the core to dive into so much of this material, and that's when I realized that's why I have to do it, because the outcome of that — as heinous and as sleeplessly that affected me, and I'm sure that affected people who watched it — we watch to feel and to — hopefully — honestly portray something.

"Bad stuff happens, and what's the point in not getting real about it," she continued. "Ironically enough, as hot as this is, the deeper you go into it, you just have to let all that resistance go and then it's easier."

To be fair, that was an intense scene. Surely Carl had it worse, though?

Riccardo Tisci & Nike Just Do It (Again): A Second Collab Is Indeed On The Way

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It's been a little over two years since Nike first announced a creative partnership with Givenchy creative director (and self-professed sneaker obsessive) Riccardo Tisci. After much success and an obligatory Instagram tease for a sophomore collection, the next chapter of this couture-meets-athleisure pair-up has been revealed: Say hello to the NikeLab Dunk Lux High x RT.
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For Tisci's first collection with the brand in 2014, entitled Nike + R.T. AF1, the designer reimagined the Air Force 1 with bold stripes, gold accents, and exaggerated heights (spanning from low-rise to boot). The second time around, he's bringing his couture sensibilities to the Nike Dunk, a style first introduced in 1985 that has since garnered quite the following with both basketball and skateboarding crowds.

The first image of the Tisci-fied trainer, released today, shows a sleek black leather sneaker with every usual feature — from height to eyestay — slightly enlarged. And, of course, it's all topped off with that signature white Swoosh. There's also a white style with a black or red Swoosh, according to WWD. (The latter color combo is reminiscent of the designer's very first pair of Dunks.)

“It’s interesting, because I come from a couture background and I’m the first couturier who is doing a project with [Nike], bringing my way of thinking about couture and about fashion," he told WWD. Tisci built on the design innovations NikeLab introduced in Dunk Lux High last year — a full-grain leather upper, Lunarlon insole for durability and comfort, and memory foam for fit — which makes the sneaker not only a looker, but also a performer.

Tisci is well aware of the sneaker's storied history. “It has been both mainstream and niche, adopted by communities of varying size and influence," Tisci said in a press release. "But no matter the model, the Dunk has always had a cultural cachet that, as a designer, I’m quite drawn to.” He also counts on an impressive archive of trainers across his various residences worldwide to draw from: Tisci estimates his personal collection tops 1,000 pairs, according to WWD.

The sneaker will retail for $300. Unlike the first drop, you won't have to wait a few months (or line up at select locations) to get your hands on Nike + RT: You'll be able to shop Tisci's Dunk Lux Highs on February 11 at both NikeLab retailers in North America, as well as on NikeLab's website.

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The Best Gastropubs In NYC

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Bars are as bountiful as Starbucks in New York City, but there are a few that raise their drinks — and their dishes — to an art form. So don’t just settle for a slice (or two) of $1 pizza! Instead, hit these crowd-pleasing gastropubs, where the scene is chill and the food is four stars; we're for any place that encourages a burger, fries, and a cold beer on tap. Seriously, what else could you possibly want in a night out?

The Malt House
Don’t overthink the venue for happy-hour drinks with coworkers. This neighborhood staple offers up several $4 beer options and $3 Angus beef sliders from 4-7pm, and the large space allows for even the most reticent, party-poopin’ colleagues to sit down. Blessedly, Malt House just opened a second location in the Financial District, which is in perpetual need of new bars.

The Malt House
, 206 Thompson Street (between Bleecker and 3rd Streets); (212) 228-7713, and 9 Maiden Lane (between Broadway and Nassau Streets); (646) 682-7577

Rose’s Bar & Grill
Anyone who’s ventured out to see a show or game at the Barclays Center knows that the surrounding food scene still hasn’t quite caught up to the needs of all those spectators. Rose’s aims to fill that gap. Opened up in Franny’s former space (and by the same owners), the menu boasts solid comfort foods, including what may be the best burger in the borough.

Rose’s Bar & Grill
, 295 Flatbush Avenue (between St. Mark’s Avenue and Prospect Place); (718) 230-0427

Royale
Royale is the kind of place you want to keep all for yourself. Hidden away on Avenue C, the divey exterior belies the delicious burgers that await within, as well as the beautiful back patio. The $3 beers during happy hour though? That’s one dive hold-out you can allow.

Royale, 157 Avenue C (at 10th Street); 212-254-6600.

Boulton and Watt
This corner spot is named after the two Brits who produced steam engines during the Industrial Revolution, and the space does indeed feel like you’re grabbing a brew with factory coworkers at the turn of the last century. The menu isn’t only heavy Anglo fare, however. There’s veggie-centric options like a quinoa salad with golden beets, wild mushroom toast, and a side of kale and cranberries.

Boulton and Watt
, 5 Avenue A (at 1st Street); 646-490-6004.

Beechers Cellar
Located beneath Beecher’s cheese shop, the Cellar is where they age the cheeses and delight patrons with dairy, dairy, and more dairy. There’s so much more than mac and cheese and cheese boards, though: try the interesting, flavorful dishes like a kale salad with blackberries, almonds, and leeks, or the steak with peaches, bleu cheese, and BBQ sauce.

Beecher’s Cellar, 900 Broadway (between 19th and 20th streets); 212- 466-3340.

Resto
The place should be applauded just for surviving its bro-y Murray Hill environs with a delicious, veggie-centric menu intact. But the real all-star meal here is boozy brunch, with a vast menu and multiple flavors of Bloody Mary's. Why hasn’t anyone else thought of mid-morning appetizers?

Resto, 111 East 29th Street (between Park and Lexington avenues); 212-685-5585.

The Jeffrey
If you happen to find yourself in the vicinity of the Queensboro Bridge (it happens), hightail it to The Jeffrey, a welcome escape from the fratty Irish bars of Midtown East. The menu offers around eighty different beers at any given time, so feel free to spend an afternoon experimenting, particularly at the picnic tables in the backyard.

The Jeffrey, 311 East 60th Street (at First Avenue); 212-355-2337.

Jimmy's No. 43
Lots of beer places in New York assert some sort of German or Eastern European heritage, but Jimmy’s No. 43 actually feels like an old-world beer hall, with a curved-ceiling basement hideaway. The beer menu is long, and the food is hearty: think potato soup, bratwurst, and brussel sprouts. Go hard, or go home.

Jimmy’s No. 43, 43 East 7th Street (between Cooper Square and Second Avenue); 212-982-3006.

Biblio
It's the small touches that make Biblio stand out, from the restaurant’s vaguely book-themed decor to a menu that has this amazing high-low thing going on (whiskey caviar on the tater tots, and cognac cream on the kale?!). Pro tip: Make sure to order your burger with the works. You can thank us later.

Biblio, 149 North 6th Street (between Berry Street and Bedford Avenue); 718-384-8200.

Post Office
Gastropub doesnt have to be a synonym for hole in the wall,and Post Office proves this by being improbably gorgeous, with dark wood paneling and comfy club chairs by the windows. While the menu is incredibly straight-forward (grilled cheese, deviled eggs), the mostly whiskey-based cocktails are spicy and interesting. Hello, hellfire habanero bitters.

Post Office, 188 Havemeyer Street (between South 3rd and 4th streets); 718-963-2574.

The Ellington
New York night life tends to quiet way, way down on the Upper West Side, but there are pockets of fun between Lincoln Center and Harlem. One of them can be found at The Ellington, which has an airy, barn-like feeling and (delicious!) grilled cheese bites on the menu.

The Ellington, 936 Amsterdam Avenue (at 106th Street); 212-222-4050.

Spitzer’s Corner
When arguing about which bar to hit next on the Lower East Side, the group can usually agree on Spitzer’s. This happy, lively place features wide communal tables and forty beers on tap, but don’t let the frivolity keep you from eating. There’s something for everyone: sliders, burgers, grilled cheese, and a fried chicken the menu calls “epic.” Believe it.

Spitzer’s Corner, 101 Rivington Street (at Ludlow Street); 212-228-0027.

Lola Brooklyn
With its eccentric, almost junkyard-style decor, everything about this Fort Greene restaurant is refreshingly low-key and unpretentious. The menu is straightforward (fish and chips, fajitas), the cocktails are yummy, and there’s a sweet outdoor space that's perfect when the weather permits. We guarantee you’ll want to hang out for a while.

Lola Brooklyn, 387 Myrtle Avenue (between Clermont and Vanderbilt avenues), 718-858-1484

Pork Slope
Top Chef star Dale Talde’s most fun restaurant is the rowdy Pork Slope. And while there is obviously plenty of pig up for grabs, that’s hardly where the finger-licking ends; there's also spicy chicken nuggets, buffalo chicken taquitos, and some of the best nachos in New York City. You can swallow it down with the many beers available, or the seemingly endless list of bourbon, rye, and whiskey.

Pork Slope, 247 Fifth Avenue (between Garfield Place and Carroll Street); 718-768-7675.

Highlands
If you are seeking authenticity from your gastropub experience — not just burgers and beers — look no further than Highlands. The restaurant isn’t just Scottish in name and appearance, though the pheasant wallpaper is nice. You’ll find bangers and mash, beef wellington, and that blasted haggis on the menu, along with endless whiskey options.

Highlands, 150 West 10th Street (at Waverly Place); 212-229-2670.

The Wren
If the term "gastropub" still manages to conjure up a dude scarfing down a burger and swilling a pint, then consider the Wren the antidote. The clean, downright feminine space offers a roasted carrot sandwich and smoked trout pâté, and the cocktails contain pinkies-up add-ins like strawberry-lime cider and cherry liqueurs. For the ladies who drunch, if you will.

The Wren, 344 Bowery (at Great Jones Street), 212-388-0148.

The Spotted Pig
This popular eatery claimed to be the first gastropub when it opened in New York in 2004, and while that might be a bit of a stretch, how many bars with food earn a Michelin star? If you can handle the wait, the warm, rollicking atmosphere contrasts the surprisingly elegant British-Italian menu. And, hey, you might even spot a celebrity.

The Spotted Pig , 314 West 11th Street (at Greenwich Street), 212-620-0393.

Hospoda
Do you know a beer nerd? Are you a beer nerd? Then head up to Hospoda, a Bohemian beer hall where the drinks and food are inspired by the Czech heritage (hospoda translates to pub in Czech). The bartenders can advise you on the mouth feel of your beer, and the menu features plenty of schnitzel and a whole section of hot dogs.

Hospoda , 321 East 73rd Street (between First and Second avenues), 212-861-1038.

Wilfie and Nell
Seeing as it is in the West Village, Wilfie and Nell is typically packed with pretty young things. The restaurant encourages patrons "not be shy in squeezing in wherever they find space," which people definitely do. The plates are, of course, hearty and meant to be shared, from the seasonal fried pickles to the Guinness lamb stew.

Wilfie and Nell, 228 West Fourth Street (between Seventh Avenue and West 10th Street); 212-242-2990.

The Breslin Bar & Dining Room
The Spotted Pig's chef and co-owner April Broomfield ran with a good thing when she opened the Breslin, which is even more British-looking than its predecessor. The tartan, dark wood, and oil paintings of animals prepare you for a menu heavy on meat and cheese. Wash it down with the their own cask-conditioned ale, the Spotted Pig Bitter.

The Breslin Bar & Dining Room, 16 West 29th Street (between Broadway and Fifth Avenue), 212-679-1939.

Allswell
Bedford Avenue gets a little more swanky with every passing week, but one place that still feels homey and relaxed is Allswell. Everything is comforting, from the calico, quilt-like wallpaper to the fried chicken sandwich and the well-researched domestic beer list.

Allswell, 124 Bedford Avenue (between 10th and 11th streets), Brooklyn; 347-799-2743.

The Penrose
Yes, the Upper East Side can be hip — in its own posh-old-lady kind of way. The Penrose's sprawling space resembles a bed and breakfast in Vermont, albeit it with one of the best whiskey lists in the city. The beer, wine, and cocktail menus are similarly surprising and fun, while the food is simple and delicious: think burgers, mac and cheese, and fried pickles.

The Penrose, 1590 Second Avenue (between 82nd and 83rd streets); 212-203-2751.

Dear Bushwick
Bushwick's food scene keeps right on surprising. The imaginative menu at Dear Bushwick features items like charred clams with buttered toast, or a side of fried corn on the cob with smoked paprika maple butter (yes, butter is a key aspect here). The cozy space also seems to have a permanent antique-y Instagram filter over it, with old birdcages and vintage wallpaper everywhere you look.

Dear Bushwick, 41 Wilson Avenue (between Melrose and George streets), Brooklyn; 929-234-2344.

Distilled
If your office is in Tribeca, you already know that there aren't a ton of chill bars to hang out after work with colleagues. Distilled aims to be that bar, and its massive capacity means you won’t be all smushed together, either. There are loads of beers, cocktails, and even "mead" options, and the grub is remarkably upscale. Consider it your new neighborhood spot.

Distilled , 211 West Broadway (between Franklin and White streets), 212-601-9514.



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Selena Gomez & Miley Cyrus Had A Crush On The Same Boy

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Selena Gomez and Miley Cyrus both grew up in front of our eyes on their Disney Channel shows.

They were around the same age, and most likely hanging out together at the same places, so it makes sense that along the way they ended up sharing at least one of the same love interests.

"We both liked the same guy when we were 16," Gomez toldW magazine. "It was just a Hilary Duff–Lindsay Lohan thing: ‘Oh, my God, we like the same boy!’ We are now completely settled in our own lives.”

Gomez is referring to a famous love triangle from 2004 that involved Aaron Carter, Lindsay Lohan, and Hilary Duff. Carter jumped from Duff to Lohan, back to Duff again, and then cheated on Duff with someone else. It resulted, unsurprisingly, in some very public drama.

We're glad Gomez and Cyrus never came to that. But we can't help but wonder, who is the guy they both were crushing on?

Who were the hotties in 2008 on Disney Channel?

Could it have been Nick Jonas? Jonas Brothers: Living the Dream premiered in 2008.

Or another set of brothers? Perhaps the Sprouse brothers from The Suite Life of Zack & Cody.

But my bet's on Zac Efron, who would have just finished up filming High School Musical 3: Senior Year.


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Out of the entire five-member Kardashian-Jenner gang, Kendall is probably the least experimental of the bunch, beauty-wise. Aside from her brief stint with colored contacts (and even then, we can't be sure that wasn't the work of Photoshop), she keeps her look very much on the minimal side. She's not contour obsessed like her older siblings, she's the only one of her sisters who has yet to come out with a line of beauty products, and her brunette mane has gone relatively unchanged throughout her 20-year existence. That is, until now — kind of.

The elder Jenner sister has been spotted rocking a neon-pink wig in the latest issue of Love magazine. The publication's editor-in-chief, Katie Eleanor Grand, posted a picture on Instagram this morning that features Kendall nonchalantly peering at the camera from underneath flamingo-fuchsia hair. No word on whether she's taken a page out of Kylie's wig handbook and intends to play the long game. Or, if she's simply expressing her love for the Grease: Livebroadcast(is anyone else getting modern-day Frenchie vibes?). All we know is the Pink Ladies would definitely love to have her on their team.



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Would You Watch An Amy Schumer & Jennifer Lawrence Reality Show?

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BFFs Jennifer Lawrence and Amy Schumer teased us last year when they said were cooking up a screenplay of some variety. But now it's sounds like they've got another project they're also working on together — more of a "true life" kind of thing.

A source reportedly told Grazia that the duo is working on a reality show. But hold any visions of a camera crew seriously following the famous duo around on wacky adventures. That's apparently not what they're aiming for.

The series — if it actually happens, that is — would satirize reality shows (something the comedian has definitely done on Inside Amy Schumer in the past).

Lawrence and Schumer will supposedly play exaggerated versions of themselves. Grazia also reported that the show would be produced by Comedy Central.

"Jennifer is obsessed with reality TV — in particular The Real Housewives— so when Amy first proposed the idea of a spoof reality show, she was immediately enthusiastic. She loves the idea of being part of a show that depicts female friendship honestly and satirizes Hollywood at the same time," a source told the outlet.

Only time will tell if this is really something in the works.

These Are The Most (& Least) "Sinful" Cities In The U.S.

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Looking to move to a city that's chock full of debauchery? Trulia has you covered. Using the seven deadly sins as a rubric, the real estate site has rounded up the most sinful — and saintly — cities in the U.S.

How exactly do you rank cities by sin? Well, you could start by eavesdropping on confessional booths. But Trulia found an easier way — by looking at metrics that could correlate with sins, like gambling (greed) and violent crime (wrath). Then, after ranking by individual sin, all seven were added up, creating a list of the most and least sinful cities in America. It might not be very scientific, but it's kind of fun to see the results:
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Hardly surprising to Mardi Gras revelers, New Orleans comes in at number one as the most sinful city, followed by Atlantic City, NJ, and then Philadelphia. These cities have an above average share of gamblers, binge drinkers, and smokers. New Orleans alone has three times more adult entertainment establishments than the national average.

And the least sinful? Provo, UT, which has zero gambling establishments, and a population that gives to charities at twice the national average. Oh, and they are also more likely to exercise, meaning they're not victim to sloth.

For the full list of the homes of America’s greatest sinners and saints, as well as how cities rank by individual vice, check out the study on Trulia’s blog.



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Did American Crime Story Reveal Kim Kardashian's Childhood Crush?

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American Crime Story: The People v. O.J. Simpson is getting all Making a Murderer on the killings of Nicole Brown Simpson and Ron Goldman. Whether or not the show will provide any definitive answers regarding the former football star's guilt remains to be seen. In the meantime, here's a minor mystery to solve.

Last night's premiere episode saw the accused Simpson, played by Cuba Gooding Jr., threatening to shoot himself in little Kim Kardashian's bedroom. The reality star's late father, Robert Kardashian, confirmed in a 1996 20/20 interview that Simpson did threaten suicide in his then 13-year-old daughter's room. Kardashian, who went on to defend Simpson in court, was able to diffuse the situation by saying, "I could never walk in this room, my daughter couldn’t sleep in this bed. She’d know what happened"

Vanity Fair reports that American Crime Story production designer Jeffrey Mossa used footage from the 20/20 interview to help recreate Kim's bedroom. The scene was shot in her father's former Encino home, but props were added to give the space more teenage authenticity. And, since some 13-year-old girls were known to have Tiger Beat posters on their walls at the time, creator Ryan Murphy demanded Kim's room follow suit.

In other words, those Joey Lawrence and Jonathan Taylor Thomas posters are Murphy's suggestion, not indicative of whom Kim actually crushed on at the time. We'd have gone for a Mark-Paul Gosselaar shout-out or maybe Tevin Campbell, but that's just us. What say you, Kimmy?

This TV Host Had A Terrifying Experience During The Iowa Caucuses

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When you hear about journalists being threatened, you might think of the Vice reporters arrested in Turkey, or Honduran gangs targeting investigative journalists. But even in the U.S., journalists face threats — as MSNBC pundit Melissa Harris-Perry discovered while covering the Iowa caucuses on Monday.

Harris-Perry, a political science professor at Wake Forest University in North Carolina, published an essay on Tuesday detailing her terrifying encounter with an unidentified man at Monday's caucuses. Harris-Perry, along with 22 of her students, was watching the caucus results on a TV in a Des Moines, IA hotel lobby, when a man walked up and started threatening her.

"I don't know if he was there to kill me," Harris-Perry wrote in an essay published by Wake Forest University's Anna Julia Cooper Center. In her essay, Harris-Perry described how a stranger angrily questioned how she was "credentialed" to be on MSNBC before ranting about "Nazi Germany."

The MSNBC host wrote that she wondered if the man was armed with a knife or a gun beneath his coat. Harris-Perry, who is a rape survivor, wrote that she froze during the situation in Iowa, as she had when she was raped as a girl.

What saved her, she explained, was seeing her students in her peripheral vision and remembering why she, and they, had traveled to Iowa. Thinking of her students gave her the strength to create distance between the man and herself, and to report his behavior to the hotel's security. The man apparently got in a car and drove away.

"I did not think, 'No! Get away from me,'" Harris-Perry wrote. "I thought, 'Not in front of my students!'" Harris-Perry explained in the essay that while she didn't know what the man's intentions were, her students helped her escape the situation before it escalated further.

Harris-Perry won't let the man's threats stop her from teaching political journalism, though. She ended her essay by sharing that she'd recently been named Wake Forest University's first Maya Angelou Presidential Chair and that she plans to continue her political work.


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How Watching My Partner Date Other People Increased My Self-Worth

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When I started sleeping with Dylan, a gorgeous 24-year-old artist who worked at the local café, I thought it would be a fun, casual rebound fling. I’d just gotten out of a tumultuous, jealousy-ridden relationship with a guy who believed monogamy meant never speaking to anyone I had ever kissed. I was pretty down on the whole idea of monogamy, and being the fiery risk-taker that I am, my reaction was to go as far in the opposite direction as possible. I told Dylan I wanted to continue dating other people, and he was welcome to do the same. Even though he was hesitant, we gave it a try.

Six months into our hot fling, he experienced a typical twentysomething in NYC financial catastrophe, and moved in with me. Things were getting serious, in spite of all my best efforts. And I was falling in love.

I fall in love all the time, though. I identify as polyamorous, which means I can (and do) find myself in love with more than one person at a time. Some people argue that being polyamorous is an orientation, like being queer. My experience supports that idea. I have a guy back home who I’ve been madly in love with for years, thanks to the intoxicating combination of intensely hot sex, and the space and time we have between visits. No matter how deep I go with a new partner, no one has ever wiped him from my heart.
I identify as polyamorous, which means I can find myself in love with more than one person at a time.And I have the best crushes. I'm absolutely obsessed with several charismatic artist types who I can’t look at without actually quivering. Some of these affairs turn into love and stick around for years; some are really intense and last only last a few weeks. But all of them are important to me. I enjoy these connections immensely; they make me feel sexy, vibrant, and excited to be alive. After spending a year-and-a-half with the cut-off-all-your-exes type, I never wanted to give up that part of myself again.

I wanted to try out a polyamorous lifestyle with Dylan to see if it worked for me. It was a way to avoid losing myself in this relationship, like I had in all my other ones. For most of my life, I believed everything our culture teaches us about romantic love: that we are looking for our other half or someone to complete us, and that this was the key to happiness. Whenever I would find someone who wanted to be with me, I’d devote all my energy to him. I would subvert my own interests in favor of his. I’ve changed my hair and wardrobe, stopped talking to ex-lovers, switched my career focus — hell, I used to customize my lady bits to suit my partner’s preferences. You name it, I did it — all in the name of love.
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I was so done with that life; I was ready to make my own rules. I wanted my beautiful, cuddly boyfriend who loved me for who I was, and I wanted fun, thrilling, romantic dates and sex with new people. And I was never going to modify myself for a relationship again.

I was set on living my life in a way that would serve my own happiness, but I also wanted to make sure I didn’t hurt anyone in the process. And even though I was finally focusing on my own needs, Dylan was struggling with the whole open relationship thing. Soon after moving into my apartment, he told me he couldn’t do it anymore. It hurt him to think of me with other people, he said, because he was afraid he’d lose me to some guy with bigger muscles or more money than him. My love for Dylan has always been tender — he’s like family to me — and I would never intentionally hurt him. Out of respect for his feelings, I agreed to be monogamous temporarily, but I asked him to think through why he was so scared to lose me when we were so solid. I wanted us to reopen the conversation once he’d had a chance to work through his issues.

Eventually, he was ready to give it a shot. After some negotiation, we decided we would always be honest and forthcoming with each other, and we would practice safe sex. No veto power, no secrets, no rules about emotional attachment. Just basic consideration, respect, and communication.

Here’s where the trouble started.

He started dating these young women who were barely out of college — in some cases, still in college — and who weighed less than one of my muscular thighs. I could’ve eaten some of these girls and still been hungry. Petite, ultrathin, and young — up to 10 years younger than my fully adult, curve-tastic ass.

What. The. Fuck.

I didn’t know how to deal with it. I started getting crazy jealous, even though I was the one who’d encouraged him to start seeing other people. I would often date people who were nothing like Dylan, purely because they provided a nice change of pace, but I couldn’t connect that perhaps he was attracted to these perky young things for exactly the same reason. Just because they were different from me.
I started getting crazy jealous, even though I was the one who'd encouraged him to start seeing other people.We got into fights. He lied to me about where he was once because he knew I’d freak out. I cried a lot. There was some inappropriate yelling, and a distinct lack of self-awareness on my part.

It took me a minute, but I realized that I was taking stuff out on him that had nothing to do with him. And nothing to do with the younger, thinner women he liked. My jealousy, my insecurities, my fears — those were mine. I had to look at myself to fix the problem.

And I did. I looked at myself hard. I felt massively insecure about two things: my age and my size. I was five years older than Dylan, and it was fine when we were 24 and 29, but the day we became 25 and 30, I felt witheringly old. Also, I was chubby until the age of 26. I still carried the feeling that I’d never be small enough, and the belief that being small enough meant being lovable. Keeping our relationship open had exposed my deepest insecurities in a way I could no longer ignore.

When I shined the light of logic on my damaging self-beliefs — “I have to be thin to be loved” and “Being in your '30s equals being close to death and therefore irrelevant” — they didn’t do so well. These beliefs had nothing to do with the badass bitch I knew myself to be. They didn’t align with my core values, and I would never subject another woman to those platitudes. If a friend told me she felt that way, I’d go nuts trying to get her to kick these bullshit ideas to the curb, and open her eyes to her own fabulousness.

So I did that for myself. I talked myself down from the ledge of crazy girl insecurity, and started working on changing these nasty, deeply held beliefs I didn’t know I still had.
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A magical thing happened then. Those girls that used to send me screaming down the road to crazytown? I started seeing them for what they were: women, like me, on their own journeys. And Dylan, who so often looked to me for guidance because of those extra years I’d logged, liked spending time with them because it gave him the chance to be the wiser, older one for a change. I wanted him to feel good about himself in that way. I wanted him to feel like he had wisdom to offer. Those girls helped him do that. They increased his self-esteem, all the while posing no real threat to our relationship.

I also realized something else, and this is important. If my deepest fears came to life, and Dylan did leave me for a stick-thin 20-year-old, could I really say that I still wanted to be with him? Think about it. We all want to be with someone who wants to be with us. If the person you’re with leaves you for someone else, the version of them that wants to be with you no longer exists. This remains true whether your relationship is monogamous or not, so fearing that you’ll lose your partner to someone else really isn’t rational or constructive.

Mainstream culture doesn’t have the nicest view of people in polyamorous relationships. We’re called greedy, shallow, incapable of long-term commitment or deep, abiding love. Perhaps that’s true for some, but for me, polyamory was about allowing myself the great joy of experiencing all the beautiful variations of romantic love. Committed relationships can be soulful and life-affirming, but so can intense bursts of passion with gorgeous strangers and long-distance love affairs. The biggest obstacle in my relationship with Dylan came down to the same old garden-variety insecurities that everyone has, and Dylan and I both found ways to work through them on our own.

I chose to stop seeing other women as threats, and to accept that if I lost my partner to someone else, I was probably better off — my life would go on, and I would be okay. I chose to take responsibility for my jealousy, to own my fears, and battle them until they no longer had such a devastating effect on my self-worth. As silly as it sounds, I was finally able to understand, in a deep, visceral way, that I have a lot more to offer than my youth or small skirt size.

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As Valentine's Day approaches, we know that one burning question has kept you up at night. Enough about your favorite designers and contouring palettes, Kim K: Which products do you recommend for sexy time?

Or maybe you have never, ever wondered such a thing, but either way, you can now copy the Kardashian's bedroom style by buying the products in her just-released Valentine's Day gift guide. (It's NSFW for those whose employers frown on sex-toy browsing in the workplace.)

The 15-item list is an exercise in high-low styling, featuring picks from a $9.99 edible thong (for when La Perla is starting to bore you) to a $10,000 bottle of pink Champagne. As you enjoy your tipsy sugar high, you can move on to a product with more of a punch: OhMiBod's Lovelife Share Couple's Ring Vibe, a popular penis ring that will add some clitoral stimulation to your intercourse. We've long been fans of the unassuming-yet-oh-so-effective penis ring — more on that here— so while we're pretty sure you can skip the Champagne and candy, if you haven't yet discovered the wonders of the ring, get thee to a sex-toy store.

Absent from Kim's list are any goods for anal play. We know that the person with whom Kim will ostensibly be using these products is not a fan of stimulation back there— really, guys, he's not! at all! ever! — but as you're shopping, why not grab a pretty little plug and give it a try?
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Pam Grier. Patti Smith. Audrey Hepburn. Coco Chanel. Hell, even your best friend whose opinion you always mentally consider when you're shopping for new clothes. Women who are known for having really, really good style aren't iconic because they wear everything, look good in everything, and approach every trend with enthusiasm. It's because they all have a thing — a signature quirk or predilection that they've championed, even when it's uncool to do it.

It's too easy to feel defeated when you're confronted with street style pictures of women who have access to the newest shit and the most exclusive pieces — especially when they're wearing individual items of clothing that cost more than everything you own combined. And while it's true that you can make "being really rich and trendy" your thing, that often doesn't make for the most interesting expressions of personal style. Really great, memorable, brain-tickling style comes in all different packages and price-points. We tapped 15 women whose outfits we're always stalking to find out what they consider their "thing." From super-specific silhouettes to an accessories mantra they hold on to no matter the ocassion, consider these the pure distillations of really great personal style.

Victoria Beckham, Designer, Victoria Beckham
"I like to keep things quite minimal, not overly complicated or fussy. I really believe that less is more, and I like clean lines and pieces that fit well. I like to try different silhouettes, but a great tailored coat and pant or a perfect midi-dress are often looks I gravitate towards."

Kym Ellery, Designer, Ellery
“I love to wear visually heavy shoes to anchor my outfit. Whether the shoes have a slightly Japanese feel or even if they are more a Minnie Mouse vibe, to me big shoes maketh the silhouette.”

Ashley Graham, Model
“Jeans are personal, and searching for the perfect pair can be a daunting experience — especially if you have a curvy body type like me. Every pair I've ever owned have been worn down to the last thread because of how particular I am about fit. I favor high-waisted jeans with a bit of stretch, like NYDJs, because they hug in all of the right places and really accentuate my curves. [Ed. note: Graham appears in NYDJ’s spring campaign, shown here.] One of my favorite looks is wearing one of my underwire bodysuits as a top with a pair of black high-waisted jeans and a sleek blazer, which is perfect for going from set to business meetings. I can either dress it up with my nude Manolos, or lately I've been loving a simple sneaker like a Stan Smith.”

Kate Young, Stylist
"My thing is navy and black. It's the thing that I like best. When I don't know what to wear, I wear a navy top and black bottoms and black flats. I feel most myself in it. In winter, it's a navy knit from Acne, Prada, or J.Crew, black jeans from AMO, and flat black boots from Louis Vuitton that I've had forever. Last summer, it was the best navy top from Zara that looked like Céline, and Isabel Marant soft black pants rolled up with Clergerie sandals."

Aimee Song, Founder, Song of Style
"Almost anything looks good with distressed jeans, [whether they're] ripped boyfriend jeans or ripped skinny jeans. I love dressing them up with a pair of heels and lots of dainty rings, or just wearing them casually on my off days."

Ruby Rose, Actress
"I’m really into authentic vintage tees, especially band tees from Nirvana, Guns N’ Roses, and Metallica. I love them! Certain things are just timeless; I love old rock and vintage tees, so I wear them over and over again. I’ll go to vintage stores, but you do run the risk of them being knockoffs. There’ s a place in L.A., Kelly Cole, that sells really amazing, curated vintage tees. I go there way too much."

Alexandra Kleeman, Author of You Too Can Have A Body Like Mine
"I'm a person with a fairly small frame, so when it's cold enough outside I bulk up my top half with layers of scarves, shaggy sweaters, and thick knits that make me feel deceptively larger and fiercer. There's something really great about a shaggy, drapey silhouette, and the freedom it gives you to slouch without anybody noticing! I like to contrast it with something sleek and fitted on the bottom, a reminder of the body underneath. I have a bad habit of going out in the winter in bare legs, which I always kind of believe builds character."

Soo Joo Park, Model
"My main 'thing' when I'm getting dressed is building a character. With each look, I start with a key piece, then decide what kind of mood I want to convey — sometimes it's sexy-feminine with a fitted silhouette; other times it's more rock-n-roll with skinny jeans and a cool bomber or motorcycle jacket, and at times it's tomboy, with relaxed fit jeans and T-shirt."

Margaret Zhang, Founder, Shine By Three
"Comfort and mobility is key for me — there’s nothing worse than trying to focus on-set while wearing something that is a little too tight, too scratchy, or has too many fiddly bits and pieces hanging off it. I tend to dress like a boy with slouchy outerwear with some feminine element, like a lace camisole or a dark lip, and some structural element, like flares or architectural heels."

Pandora Sykes, Fashion Features Editor, The Sunday Times Style
"My style is eclectic to most, but very specific to me. I rely on some basics: vintage blouses, polo necks, miniskirts which cinch the waist, and ankle boots. It's a fail-safe formula for me, whatever the trends of the seasons are!"

Ashley Owens, Editor-In-Chief, Suited Magazine
"I’d say my 'thing' is uniform dressing. I pretty much wear the same thing every day. I'm always in something resembling a suit. Every day, it's trousers, a button-down, a blazer, and an oversized jacket.”

Kate Foley, Contributing Fashion Director, Vestiaire Collective
"I would say my 'thing' when styling myself is wearing long hemlines, sleeves, and loose-fitting clothing. I wear a lot of feminine colors and accessories, but I like that wearing clothing that is slightly more oversized adds a laid-back, sporty edge to an outfit, and as I feel more comfortable, I therefore am more laid-back personally, too!"

Rebecca Dayan, Artist
"One thing I do a lot is wear cashmere sweaters with nothing under the sweater with pants. It's sexy and cozy, feminine and laid-back."

Ruthie Friedlander, Deputy Web Editor, Elle.com
"There’s nothing that pulls a woman together quite like a well-fitted blazer. I always loved the 'preppy' look. Even as a kid, I was always super jealous of my friends that got to wear uniforms to school. They always seemed to look way chicer than I did. Blazers are easy to find at many price points, but a well-fitted one with some sort of pizzazz? That’s a bit harder. I finally found MY blazer at Ellery (of course, it had to be Ellery). I think what makes it my go-to is the buttons — gold and handmade — which feel like little pieces of art. The heaviness of it makes it feel like 'a piece,' and putting it on instantly makes me feel fancier, even if I pair it with leggings."



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The CDC Wants All Women To Stop Drinking — Unless They're On Birth Control

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The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention recommends that all sexually active women who don't use birth control avoid alcohol in order to prevent fetal alcohol syndrome, according to a new report released Tuesday.

"It is critical for healthcare providers to assess a woman's drinking habits during routine medical visits; advise her not to drink at all if she is pregnant, trying to get pregnant or sexually active and not using birth control," the report reads.

The CDC estimated that over 3 million women between 15 and 44 years old risk their developing baby's health by drinking when they're sexually active and not using a form of birth control, adding that three in four women who are trying to conceive don't stop drinking right away.

"About half of all pregnancies in the United States are unplanned," Principal Deputy Director Anne Schuchat, MD, said in the report. "Even if planned, most women won't know they are pregnant for the first month or so, when they might still be drinking. The risk is real. Why take the chance?"

While it's commonplace for Ob/Gyns to recommend that women who are trying to get pregnant stop drinking, the stakes aren't so high for every single sexually active woman out there. Should all women who have sex just stop drinking altogether? The "why take the chance" argument here feels a little overstated and behavior policing.

Beyond that, all women who forego birth control shouldn't be deemed irresponsible for their own health when it comes to their drinking habits and ability to prevent pregnancy — ever heard of the rhythm method? (Okay, it's not perfect — some estimate it only prevents 87% of pregnancies — but it's certainly better than nothing.) Plus, the research out there that links drinking to fetal alcohol syndrome is based on the effects of "heavy prenatal alcohol exposure" or "binge drinking," as opposed to the effects of having a single glass of wine once in a while.Of course, it's up to every woman to manage her health while pregnant — fetal alcohol syndrome is real, and the effects can be devastating. That said, recent research suggests that light drinking during pregnancy doesn't harm the baby's development. So, whether you're pregnant, trying to get pregnant, or just off the pill for a bit, the choice to grab a beer is yours.

Our suggestion to the CDC? Include a call for more accessible birth control in your next report on preventing fetal alcohol syndrome. Not only will it help reduce unplanned pregnancies, but it will serve as a potent reminder that women do take responsibility for their own health — especially when they're given the necessary resources.


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9 Universally Flattering Makeup & Clothing Combinations To Try Now

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Every good makeup artist knows there are certain color combinations that always work, no matter which client is sitting in the chair. Just like peanut butter and jelly or French fries and ketchup, there's no wrong time for the most tried-and-true cosmetic combinations. Some are to be expected (aquamarine and white), while others are more unusual (maroon with yellow).

Until there’s a matchmaking app for makeup and clothing colors (and relax, there probably will be one in about five seconds), we've turned to the pros for a little guidance on the subject. Why? Because creating a standout, fresh look sometimes means going against your instincts and with a contrasting color or super-dark, goth lip.

Need proof? You've come to the right place. Ahead, you'll find nine surprising couplings and the pro tips to pull them off at home. We think you’re going to love all of these foolproof duos.

Maroon & Yellow
If this color pairing is new to you, hot-dog toppings may come to mind. But seeing is believing, and time and time again it proves to be both chic and universally flattering, most recently on Jennifer Lopez at the Golden Globes.

“A brighter red would’ve dulled out the color of the dress, and made it look drab,” says makeup artist Mary Phillips. Pulling from deeper brick reds made for “a really luxurious, unexpected combo” with the yellow gown, says Phillips. “It heated up the dress and [her] skin.” This is because Jennifer Lopez has warm, yellow undertones to her skin, so the deeper shade didn’t wash her out or make her look too gothic for the occasion. (But hey, that can be cute too.)

Want to find out if you have warm undertones? “You can always do the white-T-shirt test,” says Phillips. Hold a T-shirt or piece of paper next to your face and see how your skin compares. “If you see more blue and pink colors, this means you are cool-toned,” says Phillips. “If you see more green and gold colors, that means you are warm-toned.”

Warm tones will benefit from a shade like J.Lo is wearing here, while cooler tones can wear a classic, apple-red lip hue.

Fuchsia & Nautical Stripes
It would have been easy for Kerry Washington to go full French girl and pair this striped ensemble with bold red lips. But because the Scandal star’s top and skirt were so playful, “a kind of sailor look,” makeup artist Carola Gonzalez wanted a lip color that popped, but wasn’t as fussy or stuffy as red.

“Pinks are less serious, less sophisticated — that also makes them better for daytime events,” says Gonzalez. Then, she used a subtle blue shadow on Washington’s eyes, “so that they were accentuated but not too dramatic.” After all, you don’t want to compete with a graphic print and fuchsia lips. Gonzalez’s other tip for wearing this bold combo: Apply your bright lipstick directly from the bullet. “It’s better straight from the tube because you get more of a true color,” she says.

Cool Blues & White-&-Gold
The dreamy white dress Kendall Jenner wore in the DVF spring/summer 2016 show was inspired by the Roman goddess Fortuna, but the disco-ready eyeshadow channeled designer Diane von Furstenberg herself back in the '70s.

Makeup artist Pat McGrath lined the model’s eyes with wet, aquamarine eyeshadow for a deeply pigmented color, then layered on a dramatic blue. The rest of the makeup was wisely understated and fresh — as was Jenner’s soft, semi-sheer dress.

Brown & White
But you don’t have to strictly pair cool, bright colors with white. Orange Is the New Black star Dascha Polanco wore a bridal-bright white to the New York premiere of Joy, which makeup artist Jay Suarez paired with a dusty, matte-brown lipstick that gave it kind of a hippie, earthy feel. (Is it giving you Kylie Jenner Lip Kit vibes, too?) The look was sexy and soft — and so different from another brown-lip-and-white-dress pairing that Polanco and Suarez did just days later, using the vinyl-looking Obsessive Compulsive Cosmetics Lip Tar in Black Metal Dahlia.

Nudes & Jewel Tones
At an acoustic benefit concert in Los Angeles, Zendaya’s creamy, beige lips and emerald-green outfit were pitch-perfect. Even better? She did her own makeup. “Zendaya often does her own makeup for red carpets if she's been working all day and needs to rush out — and she’s amazing at it,” says her makeup artist Allan Avendaño. He thought Zendaya’s choice to keep her makeup soft and simple with her boldly colored top and pants showed true beauty wisdom. “What I really love is that she takes a simple nude lip to another level by giving it an ombré effect — using a deeper nude liner all over the lips, and then applying a flesh-toned color in the center of her lips,” says Avendaño.

Burgundy & Black
One of the season’s most popular trends is this tough, sexy combo, which has been red carpet-tested by Lily Collins, Gabrielle Union, and just about every Kardashian. At the Britannia Awards, Collins’ makeup artist Kara Yoshimoto Bua used a glossy near-match for the actress’ black-lapeled burgundy suit jacket. The look is striking, and seems especially goth thanks to dark lashes, heavy brows, and pale, un-blushed cheeks.

Burgundy & Gold
Unlike its cousin maroon and yellow, this color combo sounds luxe. And that’s why it was the perfect choice for Star Wars actress Lupita Nyong'o to wear first to last year’s Oscars, and then again for her second Vogue cover in October.

Makeup artist Nick Barose was the mastermind behind both looks. “A gold outfit is such a strong statement that if your makeup is too plain — say, you did nude lips — your face would get lost," he says. "[But] if you chose something too bright — say, a red — then it gets too flashy." The solution? "A darker, richer, more muted shade will draw attention to your face without being too loud.”

Bronze & Navy
Speaking of colors that just sound fancy...

At the Golden Globes, class act Julianne Moore wore this shimmery, nude eyeshadow with a sparkling, navy gown. “With bronze shadow, I can achieve a glamorous, smoky look that’s a bit fresher, instead of being too dark or heavy,” says her makeup artist Elaine Offers. “I also sharpened Julianne’s eye shape with a bronze liner in the waterline.”

With a smoky eye and dark dress, a nude lip could fade into oblivion — so to prevent that, Offers chose a lipliner “that is very close in color to the inside of the lower lip. If you match this natural color closely, and fill in the lip slightly with liner, any pale color applied on top shouldn’t wash out.”

Red & Red
The final lesson: When in doubt, go with a classic. After all, combining colors can get tricky, but there’s really no way to mess up a perfect match. Makeup artist Patrick Ta has been doing red-on-red with actress Olivia Munn for months now. Here, he kept Munn’s skin dewy and bronzed and her brows strong and defined to balance out Anastasia Beverly Hills' Electric Coral lip color.

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Well, We Finally Know How Rich Harry Potter Really Was

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Back when we first saw Harry heading into Gringotts to take out gold to buy school supplies, it wasn't totally clear how wealthy the Potter family really was.

Well, now we've got a better idea about the net worth of the Boy Who Lived.

A Reddit thread recently broke down the exchange rate between wizard and muggle money. It turns out, Harry was pretty loaded. After a quick conversion of sickles, knuts, and galleons into dollars and cents, a clearer picture of his fortune appeared.

"At the World Cup, [Harry] spent $750 to buy he, Ron, and Hermione Omnioculars as Christmas presents (for about 10 years, mind). Not only that, but he gave Fred and George $25,000 of Triwizard Tournament winnings to start their joke shop because he didn't need it," the Reddit author wrote.

Pretty generous, absolutely, but young moneybags obviously must have had the funds. While J.K. Rowling never revealed Harry's bank balance, if he could afford to do such nice things for his friends, his fortune was likely pretty sizable.

The thread also delves into the extent of the Weasley family's poverty — which was apparently substantial. "In Chamber of Secrets, the Weasleys completely emptied their vault which consisted of 1 galleon and a pile of sickles, which could be equated from $50 to $75, and they had to buy everyone books, plus robes, a wand and cauldron for Ginny, etc.," wrote the Redditor.

"It didn't really hit me until now just how hard the 50 galleon fine for the Flying Ford Anglia hit the family. Also, it made it that more surprising to me that when they win the 700 galleon Daily Prophet Grand Prize, they spend the better part of $17,500 on a trip to Egypt (I suspect that a good chunk of it may have been spent getting out of debt, but they didn't tell any of the children). Finally, it meant Fred and George's 37 galleon bet with Bagman was over a thousand dollars on something of a longshot."

The Redditor also pointed out some other fun facts about the cost of living in the magical world. Wands, as it turns out, are relatively inexpensive: Harry's cost $175. A Butterbeer would set the buyer back about $2. As for a Unicorn horn? You're looking at $525, easy. It might be magical being a wizard, but their world is just as consumerist as the real one.

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This Teen Gymnast Made History With A New Move You Have To See

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Update: This story has been revised to include a response from the Fédération Internationale de Gymnastique. It was originally published on February 2, 2016.

Gymnast Marisa Dick had a good reason for being nervous as she went into the World Championships.

In addition to vying for top scores and the chance to compete in the 2016 Olympics, the 18-year-old athlete planned to debut a new move that had never before been completed in competition. If she landed the leg-switching, springboard-to-split mount on the balance beam, her move — and name — would go in the sport's official Code of Points.

"It takes a long time — I was doing 20 a day every day in practice," Dick told Refinery29 about her training regimen leading up to the late-fall competition in Glasgow, Scotland. "You only have one shot to make it count and make it named after yourself."

All that dedication and training paid off.

"It was incredible," Dick said during a break from training at the Ortona Gymnastics Club in Alberta, Canada. "As soon as I landed on the beam, I was like, Oh my gosh, yay! But then I was like, Wait, I have a full routine to do still... I was just really excited that it worked out."

The move, which carries her name, will be included in the sport's official guidelines for scoring routines moving forward, she said. The international body governing the sport, the Fédération Internationale de Gymnastique, confirmed to Refinery29 that the mount was added to the code and named for Dick. FIG's Blythe Lawrence wrote in an email that moves must be performed "cleanly" and "have a considerable level of difficulty in order to be named for a gymnast."

Dick, who placed 77th overall in the meet, celebrated her accomplishment with a video montage on Instagram showing her nailing — and, in some cases, missing — the landing. The video and story behind her signature move later caught the attention of outlets like the Canadian Broadcasting Corporation and The Root.

Although this wasn't my best meet due to dislocating my rib the day before in training, I'm thankful I was able to push through and have a pretty great meet. The highlight of my experience at the 46th world championships in Glasgow was getting this skilled named after myself. At my first worlds in 2013 I witnessed @victoriamoors_ , @simonebiles , @silvia_cp17 and a few others achieve and submit a brand new skill into the FIG code of points, what a legacy. Theirs, mine and so many others names will forever be recognized in the gymnastics world. I would like to thank all my friends, family, supporters and most of all, all my coaches that have helped me get to where I am today. Without you guys pushing me and looking up to me I would not have made it this far. I love you guys❤️ Always set dreams and goals for yourself no matter how big or how hard they seem, if you want it bad enough you will achive it. My biggest goal since 2013 was to submit a skill in the FIG code of points 🔓 My biggest dream since I was old enough to know what it was is to go to the Olympic Games 🔒 #rio2016OlympicGames Congratulations to my teammate @themarttt , you had the best meet of your life and what a competition to do that at! You have grown and improved so much as an athlete even in the last few years that we have been teammates. We did this together! Behold..... The Dick

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With "The Marisa Dick" officially in the books, the dual citizen of Canada and Trinidad and Tobago is focusing on achieving a goal that she's had since she was a tumbling toddler: making it to the Olympics. She's currently second in line for a spot to represent Trinidad and Tobago at the 2016 Games in Rio this summer.

Dick's also developing another new skill that could give her a second entry in the Code of Points. But mum's the word when it comes to that new move.

"I can't give anything away just yet," she said.
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