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Only Wear Jeans? These 5 Fall Outfits Were Made For You

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When it comes to assembling night-out looks, nothing beats using the high-rise jean as the base. It’s the most reliable piece you can wear. Cases in point: It’s ideal with crop tops, perfect for tucking in T-shirts, and well-suited for bodysuits. High-rise jeans are flattering, they elongate the legs, and there are no accidental exposures when you sit or bend over in them (which begs us to ask, why did we ever wear low-rise jeans?). Our only gripe, of course, is that many non-stretch high-rises tend to restrict and restrain.

So this season, we’re keeping high-rise jeans in full rotation for our nights out — from slim fits to straight legs to bootcuts — but opting for denim made with LYCRA® dualFX® technology, an innovative stretch fiber blend that ensures our jeans keep their shape all day, every day. Turns out, what's inside our jeans really does matter. Ahead, inspired by the new Joe’s Jeans Hi (Rise) Honey collection, made with LYCRA® dualFX® fabric, five R29ers tell us how they like to wear their shape-smoothing, waist-defining, and curve-hugging jeans when hitting the town after work. Whatever is penciled into your after-hours calendar — date nights, industry shindigs, or entertainment — we’ve got solid outfit ideas that'll have you living in your high-rise denim.

"If I'm going out with my girls, a low-maintenance look that’s easy to wear into the after hours is key. This outfit — high-rise stretch skinnies that'll hold their shape all night with a slightly cropped knit top and pink teddy coat (in case it gets cold) — hits the mark. To finish it off, I find that a low-heeled bootie is the ideal shoe for dancing and a crossbody purse the very best bag option, so I don't have to hold onto anything except for the arms of my best gal pals." —Isabella Alesci, associate photo editor



Joe's Jeans The Hi (Rise) Honey Curvy Skinny, $178, available at Joe's Jeans

Topshop Cable Knit Crop Jumper, $65, available at Topshop

H&M Faux Fur Jacket, $99, available at H&M

Vince Lanica Leather Block Heel Booties, $395, available at Bloomingdale's

Clare Vivier Midi Sac, $299, available at Clare Vivier

"I'm the kind of girl that wears jeans for everything — and a date night is no exception. This cropped satin button-down and comfortable skinny jeans ensemble is equal parts romantic and relaxed (I just love the cool cutoff detail on the denim), plus it's, well, totally reminiscent of my favorite decade: the '90s. When it comes to accessorizing, a feather-trim patent-leather bag, leopard-print heeled slides, and heart-charm earrings are the perfect accents." —Kelly Agnew, director of branded content



Joe's Jeans The Hi (Rise) Honey Curvy Skinny, $198, available at Joe's Jeans

DIVINE HERITAGE Deep-V Silk Blouse, $295, available at Intermix

Shashi Heart Huggie Earring, $64, available at Shashi

Chinese Laundry My Girl Slide Sandal, $59.95, available at Chinese Laundry

Staud Nic Bag, $395, available at Staud

"If I have a casual soiree booked — say, a gallery opening, industry mixer, happy hour, or client dinner — I typically wear a presentable but still comfy ensemble. Lately, I'm skipping tights and wearing my maxi-dresses over slim-fit, cropped jeans with extra flexibility instead. Low-heeled pumps are a solid choice to dress up my denim, and if I'm feeling fancy, I'll throw a cocoon coat over my shoulders. As for my bag? A straw bucket bag is perfect as an additional fall-transition piece." —Megan West, associate creative director



Joe's Jeans The Hi (Rise) Honey Curvy Skinny Crop, $178, available at Joe's Jeans

Zara Snakeskin Print Tunic, $69.99, available at Zara

Ganni Ridgewood Jacket, $360, available at Ganni

COS Ballerina Heels, $175, available at COS

Pamela Munson Petite Isla Bahia Basket, $240, available at Shopbop

"If I have a fun night out planned, like a concert, I tend to opt for a polished but rebellious look. A plaid longline bralette and high-rise dark-wash jeans that won't bag or sag are the perfect pairing — you can reveal as much or as little as you’d like with a day-to-play double-breasted blazer layered on top. My bag of choice? The fanny pack. It can be worn around the waist or as a crossbody, allowing me to be totally hands free while wildin’ out." —Paulina Canini, senior project manager.



Joe's Jeans The Hi (Rise) Honey Curvy Skinny Ankle, $178, available at Joe's Jeans

Fleur du Mal Prince Of Wales Checked Silk-Blend Bustier Top, $295, available at Net-A-Porter

Loeffler Randall Celeste Mid Heel Knot Slide, $350, available at Loeffler Randall

Bershka Fanny Pack With Chain, $25.9, available at Bershka

& Other Stories Double Breasted Blazer, $245, available at & Other Stories

"When fall rolls around, my calendar is chock-full of dinner parties — where, tbh, extra-comfortable jeans like this bootcut style are a must. A turtleneck with charming frilly details is a good option on top, as is a classic motorcycle jacket. For me, final touches can come from bold accessories like statement hoop earrings and eye-catching mules." —Lilac Perez, associate casting director



Joe's Jeans The Hi (Rise) Honey Bootcut, $168, available at Joe's Jeans

Cinq à Sept Zabrina Flare Sleeve Top, $295, available at Intermix

Madewell Ultimate Leather Motorcycle Jacket, $498, available at Madewell

Nicole Saldaña Naomi Embroidered Heel, $365, available at Opening Ceremony

Laura Lombardi Mini Curve Earring, $86, available at Laura Lombardi

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19 Nail Trends Our Editors Can't Wait To Try For Fall

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If you haven't heard, we're still feeling the adverse effects of some planetary mayhem. Already we've dealt with at least four short-lived retrogrades, but we're also in the midst of Venus backspin until the middle of November. 'Til then, we're encouraged to look before we leap and avoid any rash behavior. While some may focus that energy on their careers and relationships, we'll be putting our conscientious decision-making into our nails.

If we can't control the direction in which the planets seem to be spinning, at least we can control what kind of nail art decorates our fingertips. With summer coming to a speedy close, we need something to look forward to for fall. Why not make that our manicures? We're ditching the predictable wine-red autumnal polish for something special, kind of funky, and totally unique.

Need some inspiration before booking that nail appointment? Check out our fall manicure plans ahead.

"Lately I’ve been loving the idea of negative space at the base of my nails. Decorating just my tips with art makes nail growth in between appointments nearly undetectable. I’ve been eyeing this geometric look, which feels like the French manicure’s more playful, younger cousin." — Aimee Simeon, Beauty Writer

"Some people save bedazzled nails for the holiday season. But me? I wear blinged-out nails year-round (with no shame). I’ve been thinking about mimicking this multi-colored gem look with all blue stones to coordinate with my sapphire birthstone." — Simeon

“I am in love with all the '60s vibes this fall, and I want to copy these retro floral nails immediately. My grandma actually had a skirt with this exact print on it in the '60s, and I'm praying it's somewhere in my parents' attic for my ultimate matchy-matchy moment." — Cat Quinn, Beauty Director

"I love the idea of taking the dainty jewelry trend down to your nails with matching gold and pearl designs. It's minimalist, yet maximalist, and so damn cool." — Quinn

"I'm super into the modern art trend for nails, and I'm in love with this minimal, abstract design that uses negative space. Then again, I don't have Portia Doubleday 's lovely, long nails to use as a canvas." — Rachel Lubitz, Senior Beauty Writer

"This is the epitome of rainy day nail art. At first glance, this looked like it would take me three hours to do, but then when I considered what exactly goes into a look like this (just a bunch of globs of random polish, really), now I'm determined to give this a shot. I can't promise I can get those itty bitty black dots in there though like Michelle Lee, and the Ukrainian nail artist who inspired her, did." — Lubitz

“I’ve always wanted to own a massive geode or two — not the kind they sell at, like, Urban Outfitters, but the really legit ones that go for thousands of dollars in rocks and minerals galleries in New Mexico and come with backstories and certificates of authenticity and shit. At this stage of my life I don’t foresee myself having the disposable income I’d need to purchase them without skipping rent for a few months, but hey, geode nails are cool, too.” — Rachel Krause, Senior Beauty Writer

"I blame Gigi Hadid and her iconic $2,000 manicure for the timeless appeal of a chrome manicure. Unlike classic polish shades, this shiny finish matches every sweater I own — and that's all I'm asking for on my most indecisive days." — Samantha Sasso, Beauty Writer

“I hate to be the person who just wants nude nails all season, but there’s something about this specific shade of a muted leathery brown that I find so sexy for fall. Now, all I need to do is put some Miracle-Gro on my gel-destroyed nails…” — Sasso

"Mixing nail polish might sound like an immature move when it comes to your next mani, but with just the right amount of contrast, the mismatched trend can look chic, cool, and #adult." — Sasso.

“Yellow is one of my least favorite colors, but I cannot stop saving images of sunny negative space manicures right now. There's something fresh and modern about the color, especially when done as a swoop or half-dip …” — Lexy Lebsack, Senior Beauty Editor

“I mean, tell me this isn't the cutest manicure you've seen this season?!” — Lebsack

“I'm also really feeling this French manicure done by nail artist Alicia Torello with not one, but two colors. Plus, the grow-out process is so much easier than a solid shade, which makes justifying the cost of intricate art that much easier.” — Lebsack

“My grandmother recently gave me an Evil Eye necklace as a gift and I've fallen in love — not only with the message (to ward of evil spirits and bad luck), but with the design. I have a feeling if I bring my Evil Eye to life through my mani, it'll bring even more good vibes. And who doesn't need more of those?" — Thatiana Diaz, Beauty Writer

“These squiggly lines are everywhere lately. And while this specific design from Chillhouse is inspired by Keith Haring's pop and graffiti art, it's hard to deny that the trend is growing. By fall, I'm betting this creative and playful design catches on." – Diaz

"This floral nail art reminds me of being 12 years old when I asked my mom to take me to the salon just before our family vacation, but that doesn't make it any less cool for my 23-year-old self (who still really loves flowers on her fingertips)." — Megan Decker, Beauty Assistant

"Despite the fact that I've seen this everywhere, I'm still obsessed with Violette's minimalist studded manicure. The lack of color underneath the tiny gemstones makes the nails chic and edgy as opposed to cheesy and bedazzled." — Decker

"Between vacations and summer parties, I can't be bothered with regular nail appointments. That's why I try to stick to negative space manicures because I can go weeks without a salon trip. This look from Paintbox has really bold colors, which I always end up getting around August because I want to squeeze every neon nail opportunity out of summer." — Jessica Cruel, Deputy Beauty Director

"I'm all about minimal nail designs. Lines, curves, and clean graphics are all my go-tos. This manicure looks like waves from one angle and flames from another. Either way, it's hot." — Cruel

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Balenciaga Is Getting Sued Over — Wait For It — Air Fresheners

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Balenciaga is in hot water, yet again. TMZ is reporting that the fashion house is being sued by Car-Freshner Corporation. You may not know the company by name, but you definitely know its product, Little Tree Air Fresheners, the scented trees that hang from the rearview window in thousands of cars. Apparently, Balenciaga did not get permission from the brand and started selling copycat versions as keychains. According to TMZ, Little Trees believes "unsuspecting customers will confuse the two brands." The price, however, may indicate that they are not the same" Little Trees air fresheners cost $3, while Balenciaga's leather key rings will set customers back $275.

Designer Demna Gvasalia, who took the reigns at Balenciaga in 2015, isn't shy about the fact that he finds "low brow" culture captivating. So much so that he is often criticized for selling "working class brands and motifs to [...] rich consumers." In May, after Gvasalia printed an airbrushed cityscape on a hoodie, and there were cries of cultural appropriation. Producer Swiss Beatz called out the designer in June 2017 for using what appeared to be New York-based music label Ruff Ryders Entertainment's logo on a men's shirt. He's also created riffs on the Ikea plastic bag and plastic Chinese mesh slippers.

"I see the people trying things," he told The Cut of frequenting thrift stores in his neighborhood in Paris for inspiration. "They make looks. I find this really fascinating... In Paris, you have a lot of characters. And those people who might inspire me, I don’t see many of them on the Left Bank,” he added, alluding to the fact that the people he watches shop are forced to be inventive because they can’t necessarily afford the latest high-end fashion. But at what cost is it all worth it?

We reached out to Balenciaga for comment and will update this piece if/when we hear back.

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10 Indie Brand To Watch, Plus The Must-Have Piece From Each

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Fall is always associated with a fresh start. Even though it's a couple of months away from the new year, this change of seasons, in particular, always inspires a bit of an overhaul as far as your wardrobe is concerned. And so, that shouldn't mean just shopping at your usual haunts. If you really want some unexpected fall and winter pieces, you should think outside the (brand) box and look to indie labels.

Indeed, fall is the ideal opportunity to broaden your horizons label-wise and give Zara a much-needed break. And Tictail is the perfect place to start. With up-and-coming brands from all over the globe, you're sure to find a slew of pieces no one else will have. Ahead, Tictail's Shoko Wanger has compiled 10 names to watch, along with the must-buy picks from each. Hands down, these designers will have you feeling like a whole new you.

"We’re longtime fans of LA-based Selva \ Negra, a fashion line turning heads with its distinctive take on tomboy-inspired womenswear. Their top fall staple? The long-sleeved Cabana Top in lush pine green. 'This deep forest green is the new navy. You can wear it with anything,' says designer Kristen Gonzalez. 'The top pairs well with denim, black trousers, gingham pants, and even floral pants — if you dare.'



Selva Negra Cabana Top, $195, available at Tictail

"New York label Vincetta turns out elegant, beautifully draped wears — or, as they say, 'basics for the non-basic.' Says designer Deanna Ansara: 'The piece you need this fall is our Gallerie shell. It took multiple fittings to sculpt, and to achieve that subtle yet special drape at the neck. Tuck it into your favorite pair of vintage jeans and you’re good to go.'”



Vincetta Black Gallerie Shell, $98, available at Tictail

"Designer Lina Nordin Gee specializes in playful footwear that’s stylish, sturdy, and suitable for all seasons. Her Charonne ballet flats, made of soft leather, are no exception. 'As the temperature drops this autumn, I'll continue to wear these buckled little beauties, but I'll add a pair of sheer black tights,' she says. 'They're the most comfortable shoes I've encountered.'”



Deuxieme Studios Charonne Jet Black, $199, available at Tictail

"Every piece from New York jewelry line Jam + Rico is colorful, expressive, infectiously fun. 'These handmade earrings are an ode to a horseback-riding trip in Cuba,' says founder Lisette Ffolkes. 'They make a statement with their unique shape, but are lightweight and easy to wear with anything — you won’t want to take them off.'"



Jam+Rico Horseshoe Earrings, $65, available at Tictail

"Instructions + is a Parisian clothing brand with a focus on ethical production and pieces that can be worn year-round — like this unisex, four-pocket jacket. Says founder Sophie Nothnick-Moustafa: 'As the days are starting to get colder, we'd recommend wearing it as a blouse with a pair of high-waisted, wide-legged trousers and a light, long coat. It's a great layering piece — it’s made of lightweight handwoven cotton, so you won't feel like you're stuffing yourself into your coat.'"



Instructions+ Jacket - J.2 B.2, $183, available at Tictail

"For fall, Jenny Wang-Howell — founder of Petite Studio, a stand-out New York label made by and for petite women — recommends these soft, stretchy, pearl-embellished pants. 'I love so many things about these pants,' she says. 'The fit is amazing, and they have an elegant flare that helps elongate my legs. And they’re only $105!'”



Petite Studio Buvette Pearl Pants, $105, available at Tictail

"We love Indonesian jewelry brand Tsunja for its commitment to a handmade, slow fashion philosophy — and for designer Jessica Jasmine’s clean, cutting-edge aesthetic. Case in point: these chunky, marbled clay stunners. 'They’re a statement, but they’re minimalist at the same time — also, they’re light on the lobes!' she says."



Tsunja Yu, Fork Shaped Minimalist Chunky Earrings, $32, available at Tictail

"Sustainable fashion brand Odeyalo is known for masterfully merging style and comfort ('odeyalo' translates to 'blanket' in Russian). 'The September top is one of our favorite fall items for many reasons,' says team member Vanessa Girard. Among them: ease, versatility, an insanely luxurious Japanese cotton knit, and unique collar and cuff details."



Odeyalo Clothing September Stripes Long Sleeve Top, $92, available at Tictail

"On the hunt for a stylish, sustainable, cruelty-free handbag? Look no further than JW PEI, a U.S. brand known for bags made from vegan leather and recycled plastic bottles. 'This particular one in olive brings a sophisticated pop of color to any fall look. It’s lightweight, easy to wear, and instantly elevates your outfit.”



JW PEI Fiona Bag, $129, available at Tictail

"Tel Aviv brand LAX produces top-quality, handmade leather shoes in limited runs. First on founder Shani Lax’s to-wear list this fall (and beyond)? These playful, leopard-printed mules. 'The mule is the perfect all-year-rounder,' she says. 'They can be slipped on and kicked off in seconds. This pair can be worn with almost any outfit, adding charm to a work-day look or a little glam to an evening outing.'"



Lax Shoes Printed Pony Slippers, $271, available at Tictail

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A Week In Knoxville, TN, On A $54,000 Salary

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Welcome toMoney Diaries , where we're tackling what might be the last taboo facing modern working women: money. We're asking millennials how they spend their hard-earned money during a seven-day period — and we're tracking every last dollar.

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Today: a data analyst working in utility who makes $54,000 per year and spends some of her money this week on Pabst Blue Ribbon.

Occupation: Data Analyst
Industry: Utility
Age: 26
Location: Knoxville, TN
Salary: $54,000
Paycheck Amount (2x/month): $1,580

Monthly Expenses
Rent: $1,000 ($950 + $50 for a parking space)
Student Loan Payment: $0 (My parents helped with undergrad so I only had $6,500 in loans, which I paid off shortly after graduating.)
401(k): 6%, or about $115 per paycheck. My employer matches 3%.
Utilities: $50 (I use a levelized bill payment plan that takes the estimated cost of utilities for my apartment for a year and averages it, so my utility bill is the same every month.)
Savings: $1,000
Car Payment: $242
Car/Renters Insurance: $108
Spotify: $10
Sling/Netflix: $36
Health Insurance: $100
Internet: $50
Cell Phone: $60 (I pay my mom one-quarter of the cost of our family plan.)
Gym: $29 (I have a fitness plan through my insurance company, which gets me a membership to the YMCA, Planet Fitness, and a couple of private gyms for $29 a month, flat.)

Day One

6:40 a.m. — It's a hair wash day, so I need to get out of bed. It takes me about 40 minutes to shower, get dressed, and feed my cat. I bike to work in five minutes.

7:30 a.m. — I keep granola and milk at my office, and we have free coffee, so I have granola and coffee every morning in the office. I like not having to worry too much about what I'm eating each day.

9:30 a.m. — I bring two pieces of fruit into the office every day and have one at 9:30 a.m. and one at 2 p.m. Today I have a banana for my first snack, plus a second cup of coffee.

12 p.m. — I live within walking distance of my office, and while I usually bike, I like to walk over to my apartment during my lunch break to check on my cat, do laundry and dishes, and water my plants. Today I unload the dishwasher and fold some laundry that's been sitting in the dryer. I drink a SlimFast shake every day for lunch so I can spend my actual break taking care of chores and errands.

2 p.m. — I have an apple for my afternoon snack.

4:10 p.m. — I leave a few minutes later than usual, which is fine by me since the parking lot isn't as crowded. When I get home, I tweeze my eyebrows, wash my face, and brush my teeth. (I have a full night ahead, and don't want to feel guilty if I'm too tired when I get home to brush them.) I've been brushing with baking soda and rinsing with hydrogen peroxide at night to whiten my teeth, and I think it's helping. I also water my plants and give my cat dinner.

5:20 p.m. — I am running a little behind for my spin class at the gym. I've never been before and don't want to be late.

5:35 p.m. — I'm late. And the class is already in full swing. I hop on a bike and try to keep up, but this is...intense.

6:15 p.m. — We do a little end stretch and I haul ass out of there. The class was great and I'll definitely go back, but now I'm biking to a nearby bar and I hope my thighs don't give out on the way.

6:27 p.m. — I make it! Every Monday at 6:30 p.m. I meet with a group of local feminists to discuss ways to act against harmful legislation and to generally empower people in our community. I order a veggie dog and a PBR at the bar and meet the rest of the group outside. $12.29

6:30 p.m. — The meeting is great! A new member is passionate about having a documentary screening on our local campus and brings people from a couple of campus organizations to help facilitate. My high school friend brings a new friend too — she is my biggest advocate and is always recommending people to our group. And two people bring their dogs, which always helps lighten the mood. We make concrete plans for the film screening and take care of some other business, like our bimonthly book club and an upcoming voter turnout event we're hoping to put on at a local bowling alley. The meeting is productive, and we have a good turnout of new folks who seem to enjoy getting to know each other.

8:36 p.m. — The meeting doesn't last as long as I expected, so I'm home early. I create the Facebook event for my feminist group's book club in November, and schedule the post to run tomorrow in the hope that more people will see it then. I'm sore, so I take a bath while texting my friend about her dating life.

11 p.m. — My studio apartment is arranged in such a way where I can watch TV from my bed, so my cat and I fall asleep watching Food Network, which is a typical occurrence.

Daily Total: $12.29

Day Two

6:50 a.m. — I dry shampoo this morning and save myself a little time getting ready. Then it's a quick and cool bike to work!

7:30 a.m. — I am a woman of routine — I have granola and coffee, and then a banana for a snack.

11:30 a.m. — I don't have any pressing chores today, so I spend my lunch break writing an email to campus organizations who may want to partner with my feminist group on the documentary screening. I don't want to send the email until I have confirmation that we have reserved a space to show the film, so I save it in my drafts.

4:05 p.m. — I head home and work on the trivia event my feminist group is hosting one week from tomorrow. Several members of the group wrote questions, so now I need to consolidate, edit, and write the script for our host. I get laundry started and boil pasta as I write.

4:45 p.m. — Rotini with tuna and olive oil for dinner! A random concoction that turns out better than expected. I somewhat spontaneously bought a flavored tuna pack for something cheap to eat on the go, and this one is “Thai Chili Style” flavored. I'll be getting more of these.

5:15 p.m. — I head to my local Planned Parenthood for Tuesday Volunteer Night. It doesn't start until 5:30 and I am only five minutes away, but I need to return a table I borrowed for a health conference last weekend and don't want to interrupt people by hauling it in.

5:25 p.m. — The Planned Parenthood organizer puts me on postcard duty. They provide Oreos, cupcakes, chips, and salsa, and I indulge in all of them. I also bring three PBRs I had left from a six-pack, and they're gone by the end of the night.

7:15 p.m. — I write about 25 postcards to Knoxville voters encouraging them to vote for two state candidates in the upcoming midterm elections. The handwritten postcards are more attention-grabbing than generic flyers and will hopefully encourage more people to vote. Another volunteer helps me out and we're done earlier than I expected, which means I have time to run to Target and the grocery store.

7:35 p.m. — At Target I pick up toothpaste, deodorant, dry shampoo, shower cleaner, and toilet cleaner, and treat myself to a charcoal sheet mask. My skin has been oily and could use it. $30.04

8 p.m. — At the grocery store I get more tuna packs, a box of rice and beans, canned diced tomatoes, an avocado, a tomato, granola, and a 12-pack of SlimFast. Men try to start conversations with me in, both the Target and grocery store parking lot, I don't engage and text a male friend about it, who is mortified but not surprised. $28.23

8:16 p.m. — Home for the night! I put away groceries, wash my face, brush my teeth, and then do my sheet mask. I hang up my laundry to dry and scroll through social media until going to sleep at about 10 p.m.

Daily Total: $58.27

Day Three

6:50 a.m. — I'm ambitious about waking up, and set alarms as early as 5:55 a.m., but sleep until 6:50. I shower, dry my hair, get dressed, pack up my banana and apple, and leave the apartment at 7:25, which gets me into work about five minutes late. Could be worse.

7:35 a.m. — I check emails, message my coworker, and get a query started before I get my granola and coffee.

12 p.m. — I walk home, check my mail, and fold laundry from last night. My cat is upset because she thinks I'm home to feed her. Just a few more hours!

4:15 p.m. — I break free! I have just enough time to feed the cat and answer text messages.

5:12 p.m. — I recently tweeted about needing new pants since gaining some weight, so my friend offers to take me to the thrift store. I try on seven pairs of pants with no luck. I do find a big comfy sweater that will be good for cooler weather, though. $8.99

6:30 p.m. — When we finish shopping, we get a couple of tacos at my friend's favorite Mexican place by her house and catch up. $4.35

7:56 p.m. — A different friend is trying to break up with her boyfriend. She's so anxious she leaves work early and we meet at a Mexican restaurant near her house. We talk over margaritas and quesadillas for a little over an hour. $14.90

9:22 p.m. — I get home, wash my face, brush my teeth, and pass out in bed. The margarita made me sleepy.

Daily Total: $28.24

Day Four

6 a.m. — I shouldn't wash my hair today, but I feel greasy after yesterday and we smoked outside of the restaurant last night. I have a bagel with tomato at home for breakfast.

7:05 a.m. — I have therapy at 4 this afternoon, so I get in early to leave a little early. It's raining, so I drive and save a couple of minutes on my commute time. As soon as I get in the office, I drink some water I left chilling in the fridge overnight.

8:14 a.m. — After I get out of a 7:30 meeting, I type up notes to pass onto my coworkers and follow up with other coworkers on items we need resolved. Then I have my first coffee of the day as I wait for a report to run.

11:30 a.m. — I head to my apartment to make dinner for tonight and clean up a bit. I also order some pants from Target that I already own and like in a larger size, since I didn't have any luck shopping yesterday. I pick up Persepolis, the graphic novel I'm reading, on my way out in case I end up waiting for my therapy session to start. $21.95

2:30 p.m. — I think knowing I'm leaving early is causing the day to drag on, because I cannot wait for 3:30 p.m. I have another banana because I'm out of apples.

3:30 p.m. — This is my first therapy session in about a year and a half, and I'm nervous and excited. My old therapist was not very body-positive, and she didn't validate my bisexuality. Finding a therapist this time was harder: everyone kept suggesting the same therapist who “specialized” in LGBTQ+ issues. I called and emailed her to try and schedule an appointment and never heard back, so my friend told me to just schedule a session on her client site, and here we are!

3:45 p.m. — I'm mad at myself for driving when I know I'll have to pay to park, but then I find a metered spot with enough time paid on it to last my whole session!

5 p.m. — It's just an intake session, so it's basically a highlight reel of everything wrong in my life, and I leave crying. When I leave, there's no one in the reception area, so I'm not sure if they'll invoice me later or if this first session is free. I like the therapist a lot and want to see her weekly, but her schedule is really tight, so we schedule an appointment for the week after next and she gives me a small assignment.

6 p.m. — Back at home, I eat the pasta I prepped during lunch, answer text messages, and watch YouTube videos on my phone to try and distract myself from the session I just had. Thursday is my cleaning night, so I put on music and get busy.

8 p.m. — I cleaned the cat's dishes and litter, wiped down all surfaces, dusted, cleaned glass surfaces, scrubbed the bathroom sink and toilet, shook out all the rugs, swept, Swiffered, and mopped the floors. The only thing left is the bathtub, which I'll do Saturday or Sunday morning. I start putting together the scorecards and answer sheets for trivia next week while watching Adam Ruins Everything. It feels so nice out that I can turn off the A/C and open my window.

9:53 p.m. — I tweeze and do a face mask. I used to get my eyebrows threaded once every six weeks, but I find that if I tweeze two to three times a week I can maintain the shape I like. I'm in bed super early.

Daily Total: $21.95

Day Five

6 a.m. — I wake up early and have time to eat a bagel with tomato again.

7:22 a.m. — I make it in early to work! It's Friday, so I'd love to leave a little early. I have an avocado to split between morning and afternoon. I am probably a little under dressed for the temperature drop, but I'd rather be cold than hot.

9 a.m. — I get confirmation that the space to screen the documentary is reserved for us. I send out the email for partner organizations that has been sitting in my drafts. This isn't as much time as I had hoped to give them, but at least we have the space!

11:20 a.m. — I'm meeting my friend at my apartment to give them back t-shirts I had for sale at the conference last weekend. I haven't heard from them, so I unload the dishwasher, say hi to the cat, and take out the trash. We were supposed to meet at 11:30, but I still haven't heard from them, so by 11:45 I head back to the office. It is a beautiful day for a walk.

2 p.m. — I see that tickets for a local chorus' winter concert are for sale on Facebook. Two of my friends just joined the chorus, so I go ahead and buy two tickets before they sell out. $60.65

4:15 p.m. — I don't make it out of work early. I go home, feed the cat, change into comfy clothes and take the box of t-shirts to my friend's house. Every Friday night my parents and I make pizza and watch a movie. This Friday, my parents are too tired to make pizzas, so I pick a couple up on my way. $31.78

9:30 p.m. — We watch Chappaquiddick and we are all furious at how little Ted Kennedy was reprimanded for the death of Mary Jo Kopechne. When I get home I text a friend for a bit about her night and then get to bed.

Daily Total: $92.43

Day Six

7 a.m. — I wake up, cuddle the cat before feeding her, make pancakes (it's the weekend!), and run over to meet my friend. We're going to a state park for a 10 a.m. yoga lesson and plan on hiking after.

9:30 a.m. — I look at the Facebook event and see yoga is actually at 9 a.m. We decide to go on the hike anyway since the weather is so beautiful. We stop at Starbucks on the way — she has $3.65 left on a Starbucks card and I pay the $7.21 remainder plus $1 tip to finish our order. $8.21

11 a.m. — The hike is beautiful! We realize how close we are to the outlet mall and decide to head there since I still need pants. I get one sweater and two pairs of pants that I really like. I'm relieved to have pants for work this week. $98.74

1:35 p.m. — We're hungry from the hiking and shopping, so we stop at Subway before going back to Knoxville. My friend spies some coupons for a $3.49 six-inch. I get a six-inch veggie sub plus chips and a drink. $7.21

4:05 p.m. — I'm home but need groceries for the week and decide to go to the store now so I don't have to worry about it tomorrow. I get apples, bananas, wine, cheese, bagels, BBQ tofu, a tomato, and cream cheese. I also get $60 cash back for a changing table I am buying from Facebook Marketplace to use as storage. $33.16

5:30 p.m. — My dad is nice enough to meet me to pick up the changing table in his truck at a gas station about 30 minutes away. My tank is about one-third full, so I go ahead and get gas while we wait on the people to show up. $17.34

6 p.m. — The changing table works great! My dad helps me carry it up three flights of stairs to my apartment. I was previously storing my things in milk crates, so this looks much better. $60

9:30 p.m. — I move my items from the milk crates to the changing table, read over a statement my friend sent me that they are presenting next week, hang up some Halloween decorations, and settle in to watch Nathan for You before bed. I also Venmo my friend $20 since she drove to the state park and the outlets. $20

Daily Total: $244.66

Day Seven

8:32 a.m. — The cat wakes me up — I slept in pretty late! We cuddle and then I get up to make her food and myself coffee.

11:30 a.m. — I spend the morning watching Food Network while eating pancakes (I made too much batter yesterday morning and saved the rest) and drinking coffee. I finally clean the bathtub, take a quick shower, light a bunch of candles, wash my makeup brushes, do dishes, and put some clothes that I outgrew on Poshmark in hopes of making some money on them. It's an overcast day, and I'm happy to spend it inside with the cat.

1:45 p.m. — I look for a movie to watch as I paint my nails. I decide on the Lady Gaga documentary, Gaga: Five Foot Two. It's different than I expected, but a good way to spend a Sunday afternoon.

4:13 p.m. — My friend comes over to bake a cake for another friend who recently hit a milestone. I need eggs and frosting, so we go to Kroger. $2.53

6:25 p.m. — As we wait for the cake to cool, we watch House Hunters and eat leftover pizza that I have.

8:45 p.m. — Our friend loves the cake, but it's Sunday night and we're all tired, so I head home. I wash my face and settle in to watch The Walking Dead before bed. The show is so boring now, but I can't quit it!

Daily Total: $2.53

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If you have even a tiny bit of hoarder in you, you likely find it really hard to part with the piles and piles of clothes, shoes, and accessories hiding in your closet. Some reasons are legit and are bound up in the fears and insecurities about what it means to give up something that you used to identify so strongly with. Other reasons are just crazy, because, no — despite Justin Bobby (all hail the return of The Hills) making them look oh so good, baggy hipster beanies are never coming back in style.

Of course, for those of you for whom some of these items are still integral to your wardrobe, we salute you (after all, there's nothing more stylish than a woman who loves and owns her style). But for the rest of you, we're about to make things really, really easy. We ID'd 12 items that almost all of us probably own, but most haven't (or shouldn't have) worn in ages, and will not want to wear again — donate these space wasters, reclaim your closet, and rest happy knowing that you couldn't accidentally dress like an extra on Laguna Beach, even if you tried.

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Swap: Way Too Big Clothing Pieces
There's a big difference between purposely opting for oversized clothing and just wearing things that don't fit. Drowning in fabric isn't a lewk.

For: A Well-Fitted Alternative
On the other hand, a dress that hugs in all the right places or a pair of jeans that look like they were made just for you — those are definite winners.



ASOS CURVE City Maxi Tea Dress With Split , $51, available at ASOS

Swap: White Sneakers That Just Won't Come Clean
Everyone has that one pair of Adidas Superstars or white Converse high-tops that you wore one too many times to a muddy day in the park or had beer spilled on them every weekend in college. So why do we always hold onto them for so long? They're gross — toss them.

For: Chunky Sneakers
Nope, we're not giving up on dad sneakers quite yet.



Adidas Falcon W in Triple White, $100, available at AdidasPhoto Courtesy of Need Supply.

Swap: "Interview" Pants
Someone convinced you that you needed to have a "business professional" look before interviewing for your first jobs, and you spent too much money on a pair of pants that did you no favors. It's time to let those go.

For: High-Waisted Flair Trousers
Unlike an untailored pair of slacks, these add shape while still managing to be office-appropriate.



& Other Stories Skinny Flare Trousers, $115, available at & Other StoriesPhoto Courtesy of & Other Stories.

Swap: Counterfeit Handbags
Not only are you not fooling anyone, you're also contributing to a whole industry of crime, human trafficking, and child labor.

For: Real, Second-Hand Bags
With e-commerce sites like The RealReal, Heroine, Vestiaire Collective, and good 'ole eBay you've got oodles of gently loved designer handbag at your fingertips.



Gucci GG Marmont Matelasse Mini Handbag, $570, available at eBay

Swap: All Your Frumpy Pajama Options
We're grown-ups, which obviously, has its downfalls (i.e., bills, bills and more bills), but it also means getting to do all the grown-up things you always dreamed of doing. And for us, that means real, proper pajamas.

For: Grown-up Pajamas
Whether you go for a two-piece set or a nightgown, finally ridding yourself of the 20+ college T-shirts, flannel pants, and boxers will do loads for your closet space and your confidence.



Sleeper Black Pajama Set, $265, available at SleeperPhoto Courtesy of The Sleeper.

Swap: All The Tote Bags
The one from that conference your best friend dragged you to. The one from your cousin's wedding. The one you bought when your purse bottomed out that one time. Get rid of 'em, get rid of all of them (except for maybe one good one).

For: A Patterned Tote
When it comes to practical, durable totes for all your grocery, gym clothes, and junk-carrying needs, there are a lot more options than just another sand-colored tote.



Baggu Standard Baggu, $10, available at AmazonPhoto Courtesy of Baggu.

Swap: Pilled Leggings
No matter how delicately you wash your leggings, if you're rolling around the carpets at Pure Barre and wearing them on repeat, they're going to pill and it's not going to be cute.

For: An Investment Pair
If you're serious about getting #fit, you're probably wearing leggings on at least a three-day-a-week basis. And if you're not (we feel you!), we're betting you still frequent your leggings drawer because, well, they're great. With all that stretching and wearing out, investing in a good pair is never a bad idea.



Alo Yoga 7/8 High-Waist Airbrush Legging, $78, available at Alo YogaPhoto Courtesy of Alo Yoga.

Swap: Slouchy Beanies
Finally, the days of slouchy beanies that don't fit and require constant adjustments are behind us. And while you're tossing those in the donation bin, maybe do the same with all the non-prescription horn-rimmed glasses you bought at Urban Outfitters to "look smart."

For: Fisherman Beanies
These more-fitted and less over-the-top beanies will keep you warm and look cool this winter.



Acne Studios Ribbed Beanie Hat, $150, available at Acne StudiosPhoto Courtesy of Acne Studios.

Swap: Denim Jacket
While tried and true, we can push our jean jackets to the back of our closets for a moment. Take a deep breath, you can do it.

For: Velvet Blazer
That wasn't so bad, was it? Ye olde blue won't be missed during the cooler months when there's a sumptuous, slouchy longline blazer ready to be worn with nearly everything for ultimate comfort and polish.



Madewell Velvet Caldwell Double-Breasted Blazer, $168, available at Madewell

Swap: Tarnished Jewelry
If you're anything like us, your jewelry box is a mess of tangled chains and rings that all look like they could use a good scrub. And for some, that's exactly what you should do. But for a lot of lesser quality jewelry pieces, the best you can do is toss them out.

For: Minimal Jewelry
You know — those wear everyday, with anything pieces of jewelry that'll last you forever if you take care of them.



Knobbly Petite Locket, $325, available at KnobblyPhoto Courtesy of Knobbly Studio.

Swap: Super Skinny Jeans
You don't have to suffer, you know. There are indeed well-fitting jeans that don't restrict your organs and force you to sit in contoured positions all day.

For: Vintage-Style Denim
There's a reason Levi's have been around for...well, pretty much forever.



Levi's 501 Skinny Jeans, $98, available at Levi's

Swap: Spare Pair Of Crummy Weather Sneakers
That old pair of sneakers you keep around for rainy days aren't doing you any favors. You can safely say good-bye to weathered soles that only come out when the elements get wet and slushy. They mean no harm but do no good.

For: Chelsea Rain Boots
Invest in a pair of rain boots that are sleek and pair well with your wardrobe. This way, commuting to work in inclement weather doesn't mean wet socks and hiding your face from your boss on arrival.



Hunter Original Refined Chelsea Boots, $145, available at Zappos

Swap: Your Too-Many-Winters Coat
Face it, there comes a time in every coat's lifespan where it needs to be replaced — especially if you live somewhere with real, negative temps, white-out blizzards, winters.

For: A Stylish Coat You Can Hold Onto
Of course, you'll need some sort of parka to survive the cold, but a good wool coat will last you forever if you take good care of it.



H&M Cashmere-Blend Coat, $399, available at H&MPhoto Courtesy of H&M.

Swap: Socks With Holes In Them
There are other fish in the sea.

For: Socks That Act As Accessories
More and more, we're turning to socks for an extra oomph to any outfit.



Rachel Comey Biles Metallic Crew Sock, $65, available at Rachel ComeyPhoto Courtesy of Rachel Comey.

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In the political and cultural world of 2018, it’s hard to define the value of Fashion Month and its role in the "bigger picture." The idea that four weeks in New York, London, Milan, and Paris are supposed to influence the closets of those who have never even been to any of those cities feels disconnected, to say the least. Why should “non-fashion people” care about productions that flaunt wealth and exclusivity? Why are we looking at clothes that don't come out for another six months? What is the return on investment for designers and their hundred-thousand-dollar runway shows? Why is September still considered "the January of fashion?" But despite the fact that every month feels like Fashion Month with endless capsule collections, pop-ups, and other one-offs, the spring 2019 season ultimately proved to be rich with timely, resonant discussions and heady, much-needed escape.

What made this season such a standout was the context in which it took place — in the middle of a historic and ugly Supreme Court nomination, the month when Black women took the covers of fashion magazines by storm, and a year after Hurricane Maria devastated Puerto Rico as Trump’s America shrugged. The idea of prioritizing clothes over real world events felt as misanthropic as it sounds.

But designers leaned into and confronted today’s toughest issues. At Pyer Moss, racial tensions weren’t tense at all: the designer cast an all-black runway for his latest show, which reflected on the positive side of the modern African-American experience. For his contentious Celine debut, Hedi Slimane had us re-thinking what it means to dress sexy in the age of #MeToo. Sacai deconstructed conventions of feminism, while Carolina Herrera did the opposite. And Dries Van Noten provided the glamour that was missing from it all.

It’s safe to say, then, that there has been a fundamental shift: What happens during Fashion Month does matter. Women have always been ready for serious and cheerful clothes — clothes that are appropriate for real life and dream-like moments, be it on the dance floor or on the street marching in the resistance. And just because it costs more than an arm and a leg doesn’t mean it doesn’t have heart.

As we look back on the latest trends and headlines, we know there’s a lot to discuss. Below, we’re tackling 29 ideas that have captured the zeitgeist during one of fashion’s most relevant seasons.

Illustration by Bijou Karman. Animation by Brent Clouse.  

Teva's vs. Dr. Martens: Divisive Footwear Faces Off

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Why we ever spent money on shoes we couldn’t walk in is beyond us, but everyone’s been there. Gone are the days of wobbly heels and footwear you knew would give you blisters — in these trying times, we need shoes that can hit the pavement. Thus, the practical options of choice this season came in polar opposite silhouettes: Teva sandals and Dr. Martens boots. Both major proponents of fashion-crowd-favorite "ugly" footwear, these two brands were mainstays on the runway, paired with everything from sequin dresses at Sandy Liang to deconstructed suiting at Snow Xue Gao. Sure, they may be divisive, but isn't everything in 2018?

Are Bike Shorts On The Runway A Coincidence Or Just A Cheap Pull From Street Style?

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Riddle us this: Aren’t designers supposed to debut trends first, with street style stars following close by with their own takes? Apparently, it’s the other way around — at least when it comes to bike shorts. That’s why we were admittedly surprised to see a trend basically pioneered by Kim Kardashian West popping up in collections by Karl Lagerfeld, among many, many others. From playful styles at Area and Jacquemus to Chanel and Fendi’s dialed-down versions, it’s clear we should just stop asking whether leggings are pants, because the answer is obviously yes. The people want comfort, and designers are here to damn well deliver.

It’s Time To Take Up Knitting

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Alert your grandma and Pinterest-obsessed sister that you’re going to need one hand-sewn cardigan stat. Be it genuine knitwear or smaller embroidered details, the runways of Dior, Alberta Ferretti, and Jil Sander saw an influx of crochet that had us wanting to cuddle up. Maybe after a few seasons of a lot of not-so-comforting textiles (see: leather, latex) designers are taking a step back and focusing on craftsmanship that 1) involves actual craftspeople (Ulla Johnson’s beaded pieces were made by Maasai women in Nairobi), and 2) can be thrown in the wash without worry. Catch ya later, prairie dress — we’re moving on to a new frontier.

Somehow, The 2000s Have (Already) Made A Comeback

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If the only constant is change, then, in fashion, the only guarantee is that every trend will come back around again. Despite our loud and proud love for the ‘80s and ‘90s, we've heard a lot of adults saying they don't need to re-live shoulder pads and denim mini skirts. Even millennials can now say they’ve already witnessed a resurgence of the high school items they’d rather forget. Relics of the early-aughts — low-rise pants, bandana tops, even flip flops — popped up at Ashish, Marta Jakubowski, Christian Cowan, LaQuan Smith, Vaquera, and beyond. Now someone call Paris Hilton.

Where In The World Is Carmen Sandiego?

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Thai elephant pants are getting an upgrade (in case you aren’t familiar with the yogi staple, click here). While drawing inspiration from travels across the globe is nothing new for designers, spring 2019 had us wondering if they all spent the last three months on the same vacation. The flood of rope belts, artisanal prints, and safari hats seen at Anna Sui, Rejina Pyo, Rosetta Getty, and more had us reaching for our passports and aching to book a flight (or, for those balling on a budget, just read Eat, Pray, Love). But, on a serious note, this particular reference has us hoping that, for all the other motifs culled from across the globe (like batik fabrics), designers are incorporating the original artisans into their work, too.

The Ongoing Interpretations Of Menswear For Women

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Some might say we’re living in a post-Pantsuit Nation world, but Hillary Clinton’s go-to enjoyed several iterations this season: In tailored silhouettes at Christian Dior, swishy fabrics at Dries van Noten, and oversized proportions at Tibi, you can now find a different pantsuit flavor for every day of the week. What this means? Designers are finally starting to get it. For spring, they proved that power suiting isn’t just a stuffy work uniform from the ‘80s tiresomely recycled — it can be liberating, too. Take Emilia Wickstead’s suits, for example – shown with pants and skirts – at an afternoon wedding, or the black suits at Akris at a cocktail party. And just about every suit works well with a comfy flat sandal or sneaker – the sensible footwear we’ll need in order to topple the patriarchy.

Colors So Ugly You Just Can't Look Away

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We’ve seen a return to color over the past few years, with designers shunning black in favor of zingy pastel and primary hues. Where soft millennial pinks and playful electric blues once were, this season brings replacements of a more lurid palette, and brands are encouraging us to reach for pieces that should, in theory, turn us off.

Think of the nod to military uniforms seen at Marine Serre, Dior, Sies Marjan, and Ports 1961: head-to-toe khaki was seen throughout. Dull grays associated with brutalism were employed by Esteban Cortazar and Miu Miu, while turgid browns flooded the runways at Givenchy and Hermès. 2018 has seen ugly sneakers, ugly jewelry, and ugly sunglasses all reign supreme, but, as spring 2019 proves, the unsightly has officially reached the color spectrum. And we can’t look away.

The Unsexy Lady Bag

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Last season, Staud may have made the barrel bag the most sought-after plus-one, and Simon Miller and Jacquemus may have given us the inconceivably tiny — and inarguably nonsensical — microbag, but spring 2019 (thankfully!) saw a return to practicality. Meet the Unsexy Lady Bag: a top-handled beauty, part doctor’s toolkit, part briefcase that’s made for a woman on a mission. At Valentino, leather in turquoise, red, pink, and black was contrasted with gold hardware, while croc finishes were given a bejeweled finish at Miu Miu. Jil Sander went even more minimal, with a concertina-style tan number. Gone are the days of trying to fit all of your possessions in a bag that carried more style than substance. Now, you can do both.

Illustration by Bijou Karman. Animation by Brent Clouse.

Who Needs Handbags When You Have Extra-Large Pockets?

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Is anything more thrilling than trying on a dress and realizing it has pockets? Glorious, glorious pockets you can stuff with various paraphernalia, making for a heavenly purse-free existence? Carolina Herrera, A.W.A.K.E, and Fendi are just some of the labels offering gigantic pockets that can fit a pair of sensible flats, say, to make your commute less hellish. These pockets aren’t a demure surprise either – they’re puffy, three-dimensional, and unapologetic. They appeared on jackets, skirts, pants, dresses, coats, and even blouses, which means you’ll probably encounter them sooner or later. Adios, purse dust — we never knew what to call you anyway. (Hello, pocket dust.)

Silk, Satin, & Sequins Get Remixed

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Conventionally feminine materials — like, the three S’s: silk, satin, and sequins — are now in total opposition to the typical. Thanks to designers like Sacai, Preen, Paco Rabanne, and others, what was once considered frilly (see also: dainty or feeble) is now devoid of any weakness, concealed by heavier matter, or is genderless. The thought of deconstructing the DNA of womenswear at a time when overtly feminine clothes are taking on new meaning may seem like a step backwards, but now more than ever, we could stand to be reminded that fashion has to evolve. Where would we be if it didn’t?

Fashion's Latest Tech Boom

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Wasn’t it peculiar that, as Europe continues to soft-pedal their own tech boom, several European designers sent tech tools down the runway? A pair of headphones, for example, seemed AirDropped from one show to another; even the most practical of accessories, like belts and handbags, are now equipped to carry your every device. At Salvatore Ferragamo and Fendi, belts included pockets that were the exact shape of your iPhone, your iPods, and say, an e-reader. (There were iPads in the pockets of backpacks at Margiela, too.)

But this isn’t an advertising act. It’s not some millennial stratagem, nor is the quirk of clipping your iPhone to your thigh like a drop-leg holster some act of happy chance or contrivance. It is, however, a sign that designers are beefing up their accessories lines because, hey, that’s where the money is. Who cares if the government is always watching, and if this makes it even easier for them to do so? Fashion houses, too, know that practicality — at least these days — prevails. So, until the next system update, we say so long to fanny packs; the utility belt is back.

Time To Grin & Bare It All

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Fashion no longer wants you to hide your underwear lines like they’re a bad family secret. From floral trenches at Dries Van Noten to polka dot dresses at Prada, articles of clothing have gone completely and shamelessly sheer — and with that comes some practical briefs. In place of thongs and other fancy, frilly undergarments, Calvin Klein 205W39NYC sent its infamous logo-ed underwear down the runway. On the not-so-practical side, Gucci offered up crystallized jock straps. But if designers want to dress our every nook and cranny, who are we to complain?

Things That Go Pouf

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It’s a poof! It’s a loofah! It’s...a corsage? Eh, we can worry about this part later. As we watched the spring 2019 collections unfold, something stood out: rosette-style embellishments adorned to dresses, blazers, and necks made for one of the more obvious trends of the season. And they came in all shapes, sizes, and colors: At Marc Jacobs, Miu Miu, and Molly Goddard, those “the-bigger-the-bow-the-closer-to-God” vibes were less of a surprise than they were at Sacai, where designer Chitose Abe made them smaller (and more manageable), appearing more origami-like than some sort of used fashion sponge.

Nostalgia for ‘80s-style clothes is alive and well, so if that means more is more and less is…well, less...then so be it. Blending in is so last season.

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Designers Bring True Inclusion To The Runway

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Do clothes actually speak for themselves? The reality is a lot of them don’t. It’s why, at a time when originality is tested by Diet Prada on the daily, the conversation has expanded to casting, too. The industry may be split on whether or not the runway should reflect the real world, but with increasing diversity numbers each season, there’s no doubt designers have begun to make more space for the industry’s persona non grata, and for themselves: curvy, Black, transgender, differently abled — see also: “real” — models.

Kerby Jean Raymond of Pyer Moss, Claudia Li, Marco Marco, and Savage X Fenty by Rihanna, cast all-Black, all-Asian, all-transgender, and all-everything runways, respectively. That doesn’t mean tokenism is dead, but their impact permeated the web. Have designers finally found a way to speak to their customer? Only a long-term commitment will tell. But for now, repeat after us: Inclusion ≠ exclusion. Inclusion ≠ exclusion. Inclusion ≠ exclusion.

Everyone Is Wearing (& Collaborating With) Nike

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Streetwear remains a huge influence on fashion, which means Nike was bound to pop up at Fashion Month sooner or later. Dozens of street style stars were photographed in Nike sneakers, and the brand’s logo was emblazoned on tops, dresses, and leggings in Virgil Abloh’s sporty-elegant Off-White show. At Comme des Garçons, models wore chunky Nike dad sneakers wrapped in gold and silver chains. The swoosh was everywhere.

But the brand isn’t just having a moment because athleisure is, nor are we copping this up to the blessed ongoing popularity of comfy shoes. Nike is one of the rare legacy brands that has managed to modernize and make a statement this year, thanks in large part to its iconic Colin Kaepernick campaign. And, after a few gender discrimination and sexual harassment lawsuits were issued earlier this year, we’re not saying Nike’s presence throughout Fashion Month was an attempt to lure back women and remind us to Just Do It — but we’re not saying it wasn’t, either.

Accessories Ready For Combat

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Last season’s Joan of Arc chainmail hoods were just the tip of the iceberg. The accessories needed to dress like a warrior are becoming less a commentary on the political climate and more like a survival necessity. Antonio Marras had camouflage headgear that lets you slip into a bush unnoticed. Courrèges had padded headgear (a.k.a. chic puffer helmets) and visors so large they could double as eye protection. Rick Owens had literal torches. Where do we go from here? Do we sense breastplates and luxury battle spears in our future?

Should We Really Be Styling Models In Durags?

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For Black people, durags aren’t anything new. They’re a staple when it comes to haircare, laying down the friz to emphasize the person’s waves or curl pattern without messing up their growth. But in recent seasons, the head wrap has emerged on designer runways as a high-end trend sported by non-Black models. This season, thanks to Pyer Moss and LaQuan Smith — though they also appeared on Tom Ford, Max Mara, and Michael Kors runways — it was refreshing to see durags on Black models presented by Black designers. As Pyer Moss’ Kerby Jean-Raymond described his spring 2019 show: "What does a mundane Saturday look like when we’re just left alone? What is black leisure wear?" Well, it’s something as mundane as a durag. So much so that a version of one from Smith’s runway will be available with the designer’s first collection for ASOS.

The SCOTUS Moment

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The day of the Kavanaugh hearings in Washington D.C., Rick Owens staged his fashion show around a flaming pyre in the Palais de Tokyo. Models walked the runway Lady Liberty-style, carrying burning torches or swathed in sullied American flags. Owens couldn’t have known when he created the collection that the hearing would overlap with his show, but his portrayal of a dystopian universe was surreal and spot-on.

People wondered if posting about Fashion Month during the hearing was insensitive. But sometimes, we learned, the show must literally go on. In that sense, it’s why sharing updates from the runways wasn’t a bad thing to do, even if fashion seemed particularly insignificant in the moment. It was a lesson in accepting the things we can’t change, mustering the courage to change the things we can, and having the wisdom to know the difference.

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Former Designer Duos Break Free

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We’d like to think that, back in 2011, designers Carly Cushnie and Chris Peters knew they’d be presenting their own solo collections at New York Fashion Week seven years later. The two, formerly of duos Cushnie et Ochs and Creatures of The Wind, respectively, competed in the CFDA/Vogue Fashion Fund together, and for spring 2019, they finally debuted their own labels: Cushnie and CDLM. The collections were strong and concise: both embraced themes of diversity and wearability in under 40 looks.

Another one of their classmates, Erin Beatty — who competed alongside them in the same year with her design partner Max Osterweis under Suno — also got back in the game. Beatty joined Nina Sarin Arias at her label Arias to lend her colorful, painterly eye to a line of sophisticated, contemporary separates. It’s more serendipitous, or golden, than it is timely that these three happened to join fashion, and then rejoin fashion, at the same time — but the fact that they did is just a really good thing.

The Fenty Effect

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Leave it to Rihanna to close New York Fashion Week with a bang. The multi hyphenate creator cast the most curve models of the season, Slick Woods went into labor backstage, and the industry was there for it all. Editors made the trek to Brooklyn, some even leaving the Marc Jacobs show before it started (an hour and a half behind schedule, at that). We’ll skip the rumors that Jacobs wasn’t pleased with losing his coveted last-show-of-New-York-Fashion-Week spot, and instead focus on what matters: That Rihanna’s show celebrated women of all forms, body types, and cultures. That whole celebrities can’t be designers thing? Yeah, it’s been put to rest.

The Phoebe Philo Void

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When it was confirmed that Phoebe Philo was leaving Celine after a decade at the helm, those both in and outside of fashion publicly mourned the sophisticated, ingenious kind of dressing that Philo celebrated. Just as much anticipation mounted when Hedi Slimane was announced as her successor. How could the man that brought his signature codes of the alt-youth — often unbearably thin models in precision-cut blazers — possibly mirror Philo’s female gaze?

As think-pieces and Instagram accounts dedicated to the old Celine circulated, there emerged a focus on what Philo herself represented. She wasn’t always fantastic when it came to diversity or representation (an argument put to Slimane after his debut collection, which featured just nine models of color), but she was forward-thinking in that she let women be whatever they wanted to. She made clothing for women that women wanted to wear, while Slimane’s debut felt like the opposite. Until Phoebe returns (please come back), we’re looking to designers like Stella McCartney, Claire Waight Keller, Victoria Beckham, and Sarah Burton to lead the way.

Hype In Overdrive

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This season, there were a few designers whose runway shows felt more like events of the season than seasonal events. Take Ralph Lauren, for example, who fêted his 50 years in the industry with a spectacle that drew a glittery, feverishly devoted crowd that squeezed onto the the Bethesda Terrace in Central Park. Kerby Jean-Raymond commanded an audience for his Pyer Moss collection all the way to Weeksville, Brooklyn. Fenty shut down the Brooklyn Navy Yard. And, over in Paris, Hedi Slimane’s hellish Celine premiere was historic for all the wrong reasons. They were the shows everyone wanted into, for better or worse; they proved Fashion Month is (still) something of a popularity contest.

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Illustration by Bijou Karman. Animation by Brent Clouse. Illustration by Bijou Karman. Animation by Brent Clouse.

The Endless Runway

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Was it just us, or did Fashion Month feel a lot longer than four weeks this season? We’re talking about designers and their prioritizing of quantity over quality — and it wasn’t just Chanel and Dolce & Gabbana. The new Celine, Balenciaga, Saint Laurent, and Gucci all dragged on, with each house sending more than 75 looks down the runway. What happened to editing? It could be inferred that pressure from the corporations that own them, like LVMH and Kering, think more is more. Maybe when you’re a headlining brand, it is.

Life's A Banquet, Literally

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How about a side of calories with your clothing? It seemed as much of an impossibility as sneakers becoming the go-to shoe, and look how that turned out. Whether it was eaten or not, food was all over fashion week, and not just in the form of complementary Muscle Milk. Labels like Brock Collection, Mansur Gavriel, Gabriela Hearst, and Staud offered full brunch ‘scapes with their shows, where guests were actually seated around tables set with avocado toast and deconstructed macarons. The set-ups were almost too pretty to eat, but as anyone who’s ever worked in an office knows, who turns down free food? Not even fashion people.

The Subversity Of Beachwear

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We’ve all heard the trope: “Florals for spring? Groundbreaking.” But what happens when you venture into paisley? Deep oceanic hues? What about designer surfboards, like at Etro? Baja tops at Michael Kors? A seashell bra at Thom Browne?

On that note, what does beach culture actually mean post-Beach Boys and Blue Crush? Are pricey bucket hats or Calvin Klein-stitched wetsuits worth the about-face when beneath the surface, an entire ecosystem, is dying in the background of our selfies? Fashion is still one of the largest contributors to ocean waste, and millions of plastic microfibers from our clothes find their way to the oceans every time we wash them. Think about that.

Surfing is cool — but aren’t most models skateboarders anyway?

Family Ties

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Dolce & Gabbana, Pyer Moss, Eckhaus Latta, and Marine Serre incorporated families of models onto their runways this season; they were diverse in age, size, and race; a much-needed sense of community was felt. The message, no matter what side you’re on, was direct: Families (should) stick together. The fact that this theme occurred on all parts of the spectrum — from mega-brands to mid-tier contemporary labels to emerging designers — was no coincidence. Actually, it’s evidence that, when the rest of the world gets political, the fashion crowd leans in. It’s worth pointing out, too, that baby-spotting at Fashion Week is too darn cute.

Can Sex Still Sell Post-#MeToo?

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This season, Balmain, Christian Cowan, Isabel Marant, or Saint Laurent pushed the idea that sexiness in a post-#MeToo world doesn’t always have to come in the form of a power suit — and it certainly doesn’t mean having to cover up. (Just don’t get us started on Hedi Slimane and Celine.) But what made these asymmetrical looks so daring wasn’t that they were shiny, tight, or short — it was that they were made of fabric that doesn’t breathe well on a summer night, in the club, or the morning after. Put simply: They’re clothes you can dance in, but not too hard. They’re clothes for standing there and….looking pretty — but is that really what women want right now?

Our Favorite Street Style Stars Are The Ones Who Have Been Here All Along

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Anyone in the industry will tell you that street style has become an oversaturated zoo that blocks street corners and stops traffic. We’ve officially hit maximum tolerance for "who-even- is -she" pretenders. So this season, we looked beyond the staged photos and lingering peacocks and refocused on the women who made us actually care about street style in the first place: eternally stylish industry mainstays like Glamour Germany's Véronique Tristram and her bold, black-framed glasses, layering master Lucy Chadwick, Tamu McPherson and her eclectic, considered femininity, elevated-casual expert Natasha Goldberg, Irina Linovich and her perfectly draped lengths, and Christine Centenera, the OG ( God, she nails it every time, doesn't she?). These women stay true to their own identity, rather than chasing the most-likely-to-be-photographed Balenciaga bag. And if you ask us, it’s that authenticity that makes the best outfits.

Mugler & Herrera: The Underdogs Who Came Out On Top

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Ahead of his Carolina Herrera debut, designer Wes Gordon was certain he was going to nail it: “Get ready for the era of Herrera," the brand posted to their Instagram. And boy, did he ever. The same could be said for Casey Cadwallader, who recently took over the helm at Mugler. We could say so much more about the juicy color-blocking and oversized silhouettes at the former or the more muted tones and elusive, controlled shapes at the latter, but what’s even more inspiring is the unshakable inkling we got when watching both collections dominate Fashion Month. Gordon and Cadwallader are poised to be the future of the industry, and with all the uncertainty currently plaguing establishment fashion (creative director shifts, burnout, collections that just don’t sell), it’s refreshing to have something that gets us really, really excited about what’s to come.

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10 Beauty Secrets For Getting The Perfect Driver's License Photo

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Yes, we know drivers licenses are not glamour shots — they are serious pieces of ID that help law enforcement officials identify us and keep potential threats and troublemakers in check. But, those things are with you for a decade — is it a crime to want to look like a somewhat presentable human being in ours?

We all have horror stories (with the photos to prove it) of ID snaps gone amiss. Bad lighting, cranky photo takers, and now, in some states, not being allowed to smile all add up to create a perfect storm of bad pics. If you do manage to get a good one, it's either luck or because you are photogenically blessed, right?

Not so, friends. While you can't necessarily guarantee an amazing shot, there are some little beauty tricks you can do to make sure your hair and makeup aren't totally sabotaging you. We asked the pros to tell us their best tips for taking a great driver's license photo — because you've got enough on your hands dealing with that long-ass line and the cranky employees.

Click through to see how to get your best driver's license photo ever, crappy DMV camera be damned.

Find Your Angle

While most of us have mastered the art of looking great in regular photos, it's a little more difficult to "find your good side" in a straight-on, close-up shot. This is where selfies come in handy: According to celebrity hairstylist Danilo, do a selfie session before your actual photo to help prep.

"Take a couple shots of yourself with your phone — you'll get a general feel of what a singular source of light does to your face," he says, and you'll know the best angle for you.

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Pull Back Your Hair

One of the biggest mistakes many women make with their hair is something Danilo calls the hair corsage: Piling all of your loose hair in front of one shoulder so it looks like you have a giant blob of hair on your shirt. This hides your neck and shoulders and makes your proportions look off in the photo, plus it can take up a large part of the frame, making the shot look cluttered and heavy.

Danilo suggests keeping your hair off of your face with a ponytail, low side bun, or even a yoga knot. The look he created at Desigual's spring '14 show is another great example of a stylish way to keep hair up. "It's not about playing peekaboo with your face," he explains. "You need to reveal yourself and show as much of your face as possible. Too much hair in the face blocks out the light and creates shadows, which can make you look older and tired. Putting it back is refreshing and lifts the face a bit."

Just be sure not to pull the hair too tightly up, which can look severe. Instead, let a few pieces fall out to help soften the look. If you simply must wear your hair down, Danilo says to make sure your hair is behind your shoulders. Be sure to brush your hair before your photo, or, if you don't have one with you, use your fingers to comb through and neaten up your ends. Give it a quick spray of shine spray to help gloss it up. "It's about shiny, happy hair," he says.

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No Red-Carpet Makeup

While the temptation to layer on the makeup might be strong, celebrity makeup artist Mally Roncal says it's in your best interest to resist. You want to look like you, as this is a form of serious identification. That means no smoky-eye-and-red-lip combo. Instead, Roncal says to keep it natural with browns, peaches, and pinks, and to use a light hand when applying your cosmetics. "You want to look like yourself," she reasons. "You don’t want to be completely overdone or trendy."

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Embrace Your Texture

According to celebrity stylist Tommy Buckett, don't try to radically switch up your hair the day of your photo. "Always work with what you have," he advises. "If it's curls, take a curling iron to it and enhance the curls. If your hair is wavy, add some cream to it to define the hair and control flyaways while adding texture." For those with fine hair or prone to oil, Buckett says to get your photo done when hair is freshly washed and dried. Or, if it's at the end of the day, hit your roots with some dry shampoo to perk it up.

"You know how your hair looks at its worst," he says, "so avoid those pitfalls. "Trying to wrestle your hair into doing something unnatural will only up your chances of a possible hair disaster.

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Skip The Shimmer

While you may want to try to balance out the harsh lighting and shadows by piling on the luminizer and reflecting pigments, Roncal says this could easily backfire. "The lighting and white background can do crazy things to shimmer – it can make you look like your skin is wet, or if the shimmer is too chunky, it will look like glitter specks on your face." Instead, Roncal says to focus on adding color back into your face with bronzers and blush (more on that later).

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Don't Look Like A Convict

The harsh lighting, the close proximity, the straight-on angle: "There's a fine line between a mug shot and a license shot," says Danilo. With all of those factors working against you, it's important to make sure you look as friendly as possible in your photo. "Give a little expression — don't be dreary-eyed," he says. Smile, of course, unless you live in a state that no longer allows smiling in identification photos. In those instances, you've got to inject the warmth into your eyes, so practice again with the selfies to master your Tyra-approved smize.

According to Danilo, this is also why it's important to put a little effort into your appearance. "No effort shows, and it just makes you look like a junkie in the end," he explains. Definitely not the vibe you want to give off to any law enforcement official who is checking your ID.

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Get A Glow

As Roncal explains, the combination of a white background and fluorescent lighting will wash out your complexion, no matter what your skin tone is, so you need to counteract that by adding color back into the face. If you have light skin, Roncal says to use a matte bronzer, one or two shades darker than your natural color, on the high points of your face to add back in some of the color that will be lost.

Need an example to follow? Check out Nikita Dragun's epic license photo that leaves all the other top contours in the dust.

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If you need a solid matte bronzer option, we're big fans of this bronzer from Make, which is highly pigmented and comes in three different shades. There's also plenty of great budget-friendly matte bronzers out there, including this $4 one from E.L.F. and this $6 one from CoverGirl.



Make Bronzing Bricks , $30, available at Make

Be A Peach

Those with medium skin tones should grab a peachy blush and use Roncal's cinnamon-bun method to apply: Swirl a little of the blush in the middle of your cheeks, then blend outwards on the apple of the cheek.

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Tiffany Haddish's makeup artist Dionne Wynn relies on this creamy peachy-pink blush from Benefit to amplify Haddish's natural flush, telling Refinery29: “This melts right into Tiffany’s skin and creates a sunkissed glow."



Benefit Cosmetics Majorette Cream Blush, $29, available at Benefit

Stay Away From Translucent Powder

Roncal says everyone should avoid translucent powder, regardless of skin tone. While you might be tempted to dust some on to avoid a shiny face, she says it's actually going to create worse problems.

"Many women think translucent powder is the best way to battle shine, but I’m here to tell you that is not the case," she says. "It will leave you looking dry, white, cakey, and it will settle in all of your fine lines and wrinkles." Instead, use a blotting paper to get rid of grease, or a clear setting powder.

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Roncal recommends her own Poreless Face Defender, which she says sets makeup, reduces shine, and makes your complexion look satiny-matte without settling into fine lines.



Mally Beauty Face Defender, $40, available at Mally Beauty

Make The Most Of Minimal Lighting

Something as simple as raising your chin can improve how you look in the photo. "If you lift your face to the light and jut it out a little, it makes a huge difference," says Danilo. "When your chin is down and away from the light, you get all the dark circles and fine lines, thanks to the shadows created by the lack of light. It's a machine taking your picture — there's no sympathy."

One trick Danilo says has worked for him in the past: Get your photo at a DMV in a more remote location, rather than a big city. "They're a little more lenient," he says, "so it's not such a tragic experience. You can even sometimes talk them into another shot if you know your first one was bad." Every little bit helps, right?

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How 7 Women Found Their Financial Confidence

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Financial anxiety is real: Between massive student-loan debt, skyrocketing rents, and higher costs of living, it's no wonder that a quarter of millennials say that their money-related stress makes them physically sick. But just because our lives are filled with countless financial considerations doesn't mean we have to live in a state of sheer panic over it. The key is finding the confidence to truly own all your money moves.

In order to do just that, we teamed up with Intuit, the financial brand that's all about empowering financial prosperity, to explore what it really looks like to rid yourself of financial anxiety. Ahead, seven women across all different industries share the tools, tricks, and attitudes that led them to feeling good about their finances: from creating a retirement fund as early as possible to setting aside one day a week for all things money. The biggest lesson? It's not about how much you have in the bank, it's about how you make it work best for you.

"I started a retirement fund when I started college. The idea of having financial security later in life is really comforting, and it forced me to budget. Since I started the account early (as opposed to waiting until I graduated and got a job), I didn't feel pressure to put a lot of money in right away, as I knew I'd build it over time. I found confidence in knowing that the little amount I could afford to put in each month (which wasn't much as a working college student) would have a big impact in the long run and that starting early would give me a good head start. I also get a little boost of confidence every time I'm able to add to it outside of my monthly contributions." —Danielle Leuker, graduate student

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"I found my financial confidence through gobs of research and [by] messing up and finding my way out. I figured out [the] average cost of living in New York before I moved and built a budget around that for my basic expenses using Mint. I like that I can categorize all of my spending into custom categories and figure out how it all fits together to give me financial stability. Mint has also been really helpful in figuring out where I can pull back from month to month to catch up if I need to. The app notifies me when I go over my budget, and I use it to reconcile each month.

"[I also use TurboTax], which makes filing my taxes so much more accessible with pictures and places to ask questions when needed. I'm not a financial expert by any means, but I feel confident that even when I spend more than I intend to, I can use the technology around me to make smart financial choices and even myself out within a few months." —Lanni Solochek, digital content strategist

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"I’ve found that the [purchases] that are really worth it are the ones I don’t think twice about the next day. Granted, this takes some trial and error, but it’s relieved a lot of stress when it comes to money. Coming home late at night alone and the cab costs 30 bucks? Never regretted it. It’s about knowing when you and your time are more valuable than the actual financial cost you’re facing. Generally, I don't spend money on things I already own. Like if I own a pair of dark distressed jeans, I'm almost 100% not going to buy another pair until they're unwearable." —Charlotte Carlton, civil engineer

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"I've implemented what I call Financial Fridays. On Financial Fridays, I sit down and do all things money: bookkeeping (gotta get the expenses logged), invoicing clients, paying bills and contractors, and reviewing how my money is trending (I track and log my weekly and monthly income). It's incredible how dedicating even one to two hours a week [to finances] can be HUGE for overall money magic and abundance. [I also] keep a running list of all things money related. The key here is to keep all money to-dos in ONE list so that when you sit down to your Financial Fridays, you know exactly how to spend your time." —Abbi Miller, wellness coach

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"Staying on top of my finances as a freelancer is dependent on hyper-organization: The amount that I'm bringing in every month can fluctuate a lot , so it's up to me to stay on top of my projections and craft a realistic monthly budget for myself. I've learned how to stay within these budgets and know where I need to make cuts in my spending. Some months I can afford to spring for a gel manicure and fancy coffee from the café on my corner, other months not so much. My organization system has helped me feel confident that every month I'll at least be able to pay my rent, feed myself, and have a little something left over for savings (...and hopefully a manicure)." —Zoe Weiner, freelance writer

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"I found my financial confidence by embracing the FOMO. I may not be able to buy and splurge on everything I want, but I will always have ease knowing that I have some funds in case shit hits the fan. Don't get me wrong — I definitely treat myself, but savings always comes first!

"I found a credit card with a great points system and use it like a debit card. I'm very conscious of how much money I have in the bank at any given time so I have the restraint to not overspend. But with the ability to put things on my credit card, I get the benefits while also choosing my schedule of when and how to pay. I also have a separate credit card for just transportation, online purchases, and recurring purchases. This keeps me honest and aware of the money I spend when I’m not physically swiping my card." —Megan Madden, associate photo research editor

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"Taking the risk to start my own company was scary, but having a profitable and flexible public-speaking side hustle gave me enormous confidence. I've always had a gift for inspiring others through my words. I knew that I'd be able to ramp my public-speaking practice up or down to meet my financial needs." —Tiffany Dufu, founder and CEO, The Cru

These interviews have been edited and condensed for clarity.

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Step Aside PSL: Baristas Weigh In On The Next Big Fall Coffee Drinks

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Since its genesis in 2003, we've seen the Pumpkin Spice Latte go from being completely novel to overly trendy to a total fall cliché. Now that the PSL has gone from hottest fall beverage on the block to settling into its place as a seasonal staple on coffee shop menus across the country, there's plenty of room for a new festive drink to take its spot.

So, we set out to discover coffee trends that have the potential to spark the same level of excitement PSLs once did. For insight into what coffee orders people will be obsessing over in the crisp months to come, we reached out to baristas from cafes across the country. Ahead, find all the autumn beverage fads they've been noticing, including different variations on oat milk lattes, sweet and savory mashups, and even CBD oil add-ons.

Thor's Hammer

"This has been one of our best sellers this year. Lavender is commonly used in warm weather drinks, but it also works well for autumn when combined with seasonal flavors like cinnamon. The cayenne adds just enough kick to make it interesting, without overpowering the lighter flavors." — Jessica Carlan, barista

Recipe:
pinch of cayenne
generous shake of cinnamon
1 teaspoon honey
1 teaspoon lavender syrup
8 ounces steamed milk
2 ounces espresso

Shake dry ingredients into cup first, then add honey and lavender. Pull two espresso shots, about 2 ounces, and add to cup. Stir espresso and flavors well before adding steamed milk. Finish with a shake of cinnamon or latte art; I like to do a leaf to show the swirls of cayenne and cinnamon.

Red Bicycle Coffee in Nashville, TN

Cardamom Coconut Cold Brew

"Our Cardamom Coconut Cold Brew has almost outsold our lattes, which is huge. You’re seeing a lot of sweet/savory mashups and people using ingredients you don’t always think about when you think of coffee pairings. With the huge surge in oat milk in the industry, I'm sensing that people are looking for heartier coffee beverages, both in flavor and mouthfeel. I am currently working on a smoked sea salt caramel for one of our seasonal beverages. I think sea salt is making a big move right now and it pairs with the acidity of coffee in a really interesting way. I also think we’re going to see more earthy flavors- maple, cinnamon, cloves, even star anise. These flavors don’t present as overly sweet, either, which I feel a lot of our guests are moving away from." — Valerie Pollock, coffee program manager

Butcher & Bee, The Daily in Charleston, SC

Maple Lattes & Anything With Oat Milk

"Maple Lattes aren't an item that Birch Coffee serves but I would love to see Maple Lattes make their way into people's seasonal coffee routine. I think this drink would taste great made with oat milk."

"I'm sure this isn't the first you're hearing of this, but Oatly 0at milk is all the rage right now, and I have a feeling people will get really creative with this for the fall season. Oat milk is an incredibly approachable non dairy, milk alternative, and I think that's a huge reason people are becoming familiar with it — its dairy-free, gluten-free, soy-free, and it doesn't have any added sugar — so it is seemingly one of the more healthy milk alternatives." — Sara Kjelsvig, barista

Birch Coffee in New York, New York

CBD Oil Add-Ons

"We are seeing big trends in oat milk lattes and CBD oil add-ons (and this way, you can still taste the balanced flavor of the espresso we are serving!). We will be offering CBD as an add-on this fall. We decided to partner with Higher Wave Wellness — they have a water soluble CBD product that doesn’t interfere with the taste of the coffee. According to them, 'Merging the stimulation of caffeine with the calming nature of CBD, customers will enjoy the synergistic effects and in addition counteract unsettling feelings of anxiety, shakiness or jitters brought on by one two many cups of brew.' I’ve tried it and personally, felt much more focused and relaxed." — Claire Chan, owner

THE ELK in New York, New York

Honey Lattes & Simplified Menus

"Our honey latte is a popular choice among our customers year round... Offering homemade syrups help showcase and compliment the coffee we serve — to open up the dialogue of the story and origin of the coffee if possible or simply provide a consistently delicious beverage for any new or current customer."

"The next trend could become more focused on transparency of "seed to cup." This will include, sharing with guest what country the coffee beans come from, the relationship we have with the farmers, using the same coffee in various brew methods ie cold brew, nitro, pour over, and espresso. These topics have contributed to having menus that are a bit more simplified and specialized." — Adriana Uriostegui, barista

Coava Coffee in San Diego, California

Vegan Buttercup Latte

"For the fall menu at Black Fox, I wanted to create a beverage that I personally would enjoy as well as our customers. That drink is a Vegan Buttercup latte. Though I'm not vegan, I am lactose intolerant and felt it necessary to have something on our menu that we could enjoy. The Vegan Buttercup includes a single shot of espresso, steamed oat milk, and a house-made vegan butterscotch syrup made with coconut milk and panela sugar, all in an 8oz cup. It's the most delicious vegan sweet treat! I carefully balanced the ratios to highlight each element of the drink." — Brittney Bell, barista

Black Fox Coffee Co. in New York, NY

Maple Cold Brew Oat-Lait

"This fall, Colectivo is kicking off cooler weather with our Maple Cold Brew Oat-Lait. Offered hot or cold, it’s a combination of creamy Oat Milk, our signature Session Cold Brew, and maple-flavored syrup infused with cinnamon, clove, and ginger. Maple is a rich, deep flavor for fall. Combined with warming spices, the Oat-Lait will be helping me ease into the harsh, Wisconsin winter." — Rebecca Siahaan, retail and wholesale barista trainer

Colectivo Coffee Roasters and Cafes in Milwaukee, WI

Oh, Snap!

"This fall we are rolling out some new drinks that I'm really excited about. The 'Oh Snap!' is super refreshing drink with a hint of spice. It's an iced drink, because even though it's autumn, it's still 90 degrees outside here in Texas! The 'Oh Snap!' is made with ginger beer, cold brew, lime juice, and house-made maple-infused simple syrup, with a candied ginger garnish." — Julie Serafini, shopkeeper

Houndstooth Coffee in Austin, TX

Turmeric Chai Latte

"I know that Turmeric has been gaining traction for a bit now, but I think it’s going to go big this fall. A Turmeric Chai Latte is perfect for fall because its earthy taste is great for the colder weather and the chai tea and hint of ginger gives just the right amount of spice. Turmeric is also great for your immune system which is oh so key during the cold and flu season." — Hyeyoung Tarin, co-founder and in-house barista expert

Supa Coffee in Los Angeles, CA

House-Made Ingredients

"Seasonal specialty beverages are putting a strong emphasis on synergy, allowing for the coffee's true flavor to shine through. There is also definitely a trend of drinks that have a house-made ingredients like homemade nut and other alt-milks, and many of these drinks are being developed with health, wellness, and sustainability in mind." — Allie Caran, director of education

Toby's Estate Coffee in Brooklyn, NY

Cocktail-Inspired Botanical Ingredients

"I've noticed a shift away from the traditional fall palette of pumpkin + common baking spices to fresher and more vibrant botanicals. Creative ingredients are surfacing in cocktails and coffee drinks alike as part of a broader interplay of mixology and specialty coffee — many craft coffee beverages make use of techniques and ingredients from behind the bar, including tonics, shrubs, and bitters." — Pia Barnet, green coffee coordinator

Verve Coffee Roasters in Santa Cruz, CA

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Weleda Is Launching An Entire Skin Food Collection — & Fans Are Thrilled

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Weleda Skin Food is perhaps the world's fanciest $12 moisturizer. Rattle off a few models — just the first ones that come to mind — and at least half of them will tell you that they have the crinkled, green aluminum tube stashed in their bedside table or in their medicine cabinet.

If you're a fan of the original moisturizer, you're well-aware that it has Vaseline-like versatility — meaning you can massage it into your face before a long flight, smooth it under your eyes to keep that area from getting crepe-y and dry, or dab a little onto your cracked heels to soften calluses.

And now, you're going to have to make some more room in your bathroom, because Weleda is expanding its Skin Food line — with a new body butter, lip balm, and lightweight moisturizer — all at the same, under-$20 price point. Ahead, check out the full Skin Food collection, which will be available on Weleda's site come November, and rolling out at national retailers ( hello, Target) in February 2019.

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Nine out of 10 models swear that they slather this super rich cream onto their faces before a big photoshoot. Makeup artists tell us they like to squeeze it onto a damp Beautyblender and dab it on the tops of cheekbones. We just rub it everywhere, including cracked elbows, hands, and feet. Regardless of the prescribed use, everyone loves the $12 price tag and the fact that it's available at Target.



Skin Food Skin Food, $19, available at Weleda

If you love a luxe, creamy body butter, but aren't crazy about the ones that leave your legs smelling like gingerbread cookies, this green tub of Skin Food is for you. Formulated with a blend of sunflower seed oil, lanolin, beeswax, shea butter, and cocoa butter, it leaves skin intensely soft, smooth, and hydrated — without any headache-inducing seasonal fragrance.

Weleda Skin Food Body Butter, $18.99, available in November at Weleda.

If you've been hesitant to try the OG Skin Food because you think it will be too heavy for your skin, consider the reformulated, lighter version that has the texture of a gel-cream.

Weleda Skin Food Light, $12.49, available in November at Weleda.

If you like your lip balm extra glossy, the oil-based chamomile and calendula Skin Food lip butter is a great buy before the cold weather season kicks into high gear. Be forewarned: The consistency is a little runny, so squeeze with caution.

Weleda Skin Food Lip Butter, $6.99, available in November at Weleda.

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A Man Groped A Female Passenger Because Trump "Says It's OK To Grab Women"

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A Florida man told authorities he groped a woman's breast without her consent aboard a Southwest Airlines flight because accused sexual predator President Donald Trump has said "it's OK to grab women by their private parts," according to a criminal complaint.

Federal officials say Bruce Alexander, 49, was on a Houston, TX flight bound for Albuquerque, NM when he allegedly touched a sleeping woman in the window seat directly in front of him. The woman, who has not been identified, said she felt someone grab her breast around the "bra line" without her consent after she fell asleep at the beginning of the flight.

She thought the hand had touched her by accident until she was groped again about half-an-hour later. She told authorities that this time the person groping her grabbed the back of her arm and then made his way to grab her breast again. The woman described that hand that touched her as having thick, hairy fingers and dirty fingernails. Authorities say the description matches Alexander's hand.

The woman told officials that after being groped for the second time, she rose up from her seat and confronted Alexander directly, asking him why he thought it was acceptable to touch her without her consent. She went on to ask a flight crew member to be seated elsewhere.

Alexander was arrested by uniformed officers when the flight landed in Albuquerque. According to the criminal complaint, that's when Alexander "stated the President of the United States says it's OK to grab women by their private parts." The man was making reference to the remarks made by Trump at the infamous Access Hollywood tape, where he openly boasted about sexually assaulting women.

"You know, I’m automatically attracted to beautiful, I just start kissing them. It’s like a magnet. Just kiss. I don’t even wait. And when you’re a star, they let you do it. You can do anything," Trump, who's been accused of sexual misconduct by at least 19 women, said on the tape. He added: "Grab them by the pussy. You can do anything."

Alexander was charged with abusive sexual contact and will appear before court Tuesday. If convicted, he could be sentenced to up to two years in prison and required to pay a $250,000 fine.

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Pinterest Searches Are Up 91% For This Halloween Costume

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I learned at a very young age that Halloween costumes are expensive. The moment you realize that you can thrift for your own Carmen Sandiego outfit (instead of dropping $70 on a polyester version in a half-opened pouch), the game changes. I stopped trolling Party City's catalog, and redirected my attention to the power of makeup instead.

Revolving your entire look around an intricate display of cosmetic talent can be tricky, but well worth the process. On the downside, the top-trending looks for this season will most likely take you a lot longer than throwing on some red lipstick and calling yourself Marilyn Monroe. But the pay-off will collect more compliments than Selena Gomez's Instagram account.

According to Pinterest, this is the year of originality — and a wave of pop culture icons, mystical creatures, and... animals? The best part: We bet you could master most of these looks with beauty products you already have. And if you're truly makeup challenged, a local counter should be able to accommodate your request with a few of the inspiration images we've collected here.

Click ahead to check out this year's most popular Halloween looks on Pinterest.

Cheetah / Leopard

Last year, it was all about the giraffe. This year, it's the cheetah (or leopard, depending on your preference). One makeup artist combined two trends in one (with optical illusions, but more on that later) for this hypnotizing look.

Not enough time to paint your body in gold and brown spots? Concentrate the details on one side of your face and top it all off with an dramatic cat-eye.

Spiderweb Eyeliner

Sorry makeup newbies, this one is not for you. Spiderweb eyeliner has been a popular spooky trend for years, but perhaps 2018 is finally the year you put your skills to the test.

Oily eyelids? Focus your handiwork on the bottom half of your eye. Pro artist Juliet Capati chose to keep her Halloween look affordable by using Nyx's Liquid Suede Cream Lipstick to create her creepy look.

Pumpkin

This isn't your childhood Halloween costume. Yes, it will require several hours more than it would take to run to the Spirit superstore for an itchy tangerine one-piece, but imagine the kind of awards you'll win at your office party this year!

Not prepared for a midnight clean up of all that orange body makeup? Try creating a mini masterpiece on your lid with matte eyeshadow and a super-fine liquid liner.

This split look not only shows off some expert work with glitter, but also elevates a classic pumpkin face paint with details — like vines and leaves — most people overlook when creating a gourd-inspired ensemble for Halloween.

Fairy

Ever since we first saw Peter Pan, we've been wondering exactly what it would be like to be a fairy — even if for just a few hours. Luckily, copying this mythic look isn't as hard as it looks. All you need is a trip to Michael's and body glitter.

Recreating this look is as easy as getting a bright wig and liquid eyeshadow (that's packed with glitter).

Fairies don't have to be extra. Makeup artist Bo Senesomxay created this glowing, natural makeup with plenty of strobing cream for a wearable, spritely look.

Optical Illusion

These dizzying beauty looks were all over Instagram earlier this year. Now, the off-putting tricks are fit for the spooky holiday.

Makeup artist Dain Yoon is Instagram famous for her looks that not only blow your mind, but potentially cause a headache. Nonetheless, her take on a living Russian doll is one worth trying out for October 31.

Beware of making one of these disorienting designs a last minute option. Our suggestion: Do your research on YouTube first and set aside several hours to get it right.

Galaxy

Back again for another round, Pinterest says that galaxy makeup is still one of its most-searched Halloween trends. In fact, interest in the term has grown nearly 160% in the last year. We're here to confirm that the unique look is still out of this world.

Leave the constellations on your eyelids, or cover your entire face in the intergalactic freckles.

Complement your glitter with temporary hair color that'll really launch your look into another universe.

Sally from The Nightmare Before Christmas

The fantasy-meets-macabre musical came out two decades ago, but according to Pinterest, fans are still going nuts over one character: Sally. The costume is so popular, that apparently searches for the look are up 91% from last year. Although committing to being the Tim Burton rag doll means investing in a lot of blue body paint and patience, it also means you'll need a red wig, falsies, and the ability to draw on fake stitches.

This cosplay artist's Sally rendition is not child's play. In fact it's so realistic, we bet by midnight you'll find your own Jack Skellington.

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The Skin-Care Products You Should Try Before You're 30

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Aging gracefully is the goal of hopeful, optimistic millennials everywhere, isn’t it? We’d like to look healthy, and damn good, as the decades go by. Well, as professionals (and capitalism!) tell us, the key to a beautiful complexion is daily care and smart prevention.

We get it: You already knew that! But, don't you get confused about how exactly you should be “preventing” things? (Is Botox preventative?) How can we weave new products into our routines without prompting an onslaught of clogged pores and acne? And, more importantly, at what point do we need to get Olivia Pope levels of serious about fine lines, wrinkles, and hyperpigmentation?

To answer these very important questions (and help phase you into real adulthood), we consulted prominent dermatologists and aestheticians. Here, they take us through the early, middle, and late chapters of our 20s, and then give us a sneak peek at our 30s. But, before you start clicking, we want you to note: At no point is it too late to start taking good care of your skin.

The Early 20s
Adulthood is just beginning for you, children of the future! Unfortunately, while life speeds up, your body does the opposite. “Skin-repair replacement mechanisms begin to slow by age 20,” says celebrity dermatologist Harold Lancer, MD. “In women, there are hormonal shifts — estrogen declines, and testosterone increases.” This might come as a surprise for someone who’s just beginning to enjoy the best skin of their lives: “Your skin, right now, looks like it's in its prime,” says Caroline Hirons, a London-based aesthetician. “But, what you do right now will determine how it looks later on.”

So, your early 20s are kind of like facial bootcamp: It's the time to build up the proper discipline and habits that will help you age gracefully — without going totally overboard and causing your face to become a red, irritated mess.



Ren Evercalm Gentle Cleansing Milk, $28, available at NordstromPhoto: Via Ren.

Swap the Acne Wash
“Americans treat their skin like it’s the enemy," says Hirons. "It’s not! Get rid of any foaming acne cleansers, because they’re too stripping.” Unless you’re under specific instructions from your derm to use a medicated daily wash, choose a gentler alternative. “A cleansing milk or oil will balance the complexion and remove the day’s grime,” she says.



Tatcha TATCHA 1-Step Camellia Cleansing Oil, $62.99, available at Amazon

Pick Up A Cleansing Oil
And, of course, washing twice daily is absolutely necessary. “I always tell my clients that cleansing before bed is non-negotiable. Now is the time to be responsible,” says celebrity aesthetician Joanna Vargas. And don’t try to be sneaky after you’ve had a few too many cocktails at happy hour: “Cleansing wipes absolutely don’t count as washing your face!” Hirons says.

Caudalie Make-Up Removing Cleansing Oil, $28, available at Sephora.

A cleansing balm is another excellent choice. Many formulas, like this one, are loaded with oils that dissolve makeup in a matter of seconds. Unlike cleansing oils, balms are solid at room temperature, making them a great mess-free options for travel.

Clinique Take the Day Off Cleansing Balm, $29, available at Clinique.

Start Exfoliating Three Times a Week
“You have to stimulate your skin in order for it to repair itself,” explains Dr. Lancer. “It’s just like exercise — you have to get the muscles burning in order to promote cardiovascular muscular growth. Make sure to use a scrub at night, so your skin has time to recover.” Since you’re still young and beautiful (as Lana Del Rey sings), you’ll want something gentle with just the right amount of grit: You don't want to rub your face raw. This product should do the trick.

Dermalogica Skin Prep Scrub, $37, available at Ulta Beauty.

Photo: Dermalogica

Swap Your Toner
That’s right: It doesn’t always have to sting! “I always recommend my younger clients stay away from astringent toning products [in favor of] something more balancing,” Vargas says. “Rose is incredibly hydrating and good for circulation — it works on any skin type.”



Eminence Organics Rosehip Tonique, $38, available at Buy Natural SkincarePhoto: Via Éminence.

Start Using an Eye Cream
“The skin around the eyes is very thin and gentle, which means signs of aging are likely to start there,” says Vargas. You should apply a basic, hydrating eye cream both day and night to keep fine lines at bay. Just pat it in with your ring finger, and make sure you leave time for it to sink into the skin.

Clinique Pep-Start Eye Cream, $26.50, available at Sephora.

Get Diligent About SPF
The biggest no-brainer, though, is starting to use SPF, ASAP. “Daily sun protection will go a very long way in terms of preventing the signs of aging,” Hirons says. Dr. Lancer notes: “You should be using [SPF] 15 to 30, because much more than that is [just] marketing. Just make sure to apply it liberally — that’s the one mistake a lot of my patients make with sunscreens." We love this all-natural wonder from Canada.



Consonant The Perfect Sunscreen, $45, available at ConsonantPhoto: Via Consonant.

Get to Know Antioxidants
“There’s a huge lifestyle component to skin care,” says Dr. Lancer. "At this age, you’re wolfing down your lunch, going to parties, imbibing too much alcohol, and being surrounded by tobacco products. That’s why antioxidants are key.” You can only counteract the damage done by living la vida Lohan with the proper cocktail of ingredients, which helps ward off environmental stressors. This daily cream does the trick without being too heavy.

When you’re applying it, says Hirons, be sure to save some for the neck and décolletage. “Americans are the only people who think the face stops at the chin,” she says. Save yourself from a future of turtlenecks by spreading the love.

Try a Facial Oil
Oils are the true gold standard of skin care, mostly because they contain potent ingredients and optimum moisturizing properties. “The right oil can also help mend acne scars and breakouts,” Hirons says. Sunday Riley’s blends might put a dent in your savings account, but you can practically feel them transforming your skin as you smooth them on. (Or maybe it’s just the placebo effect that comes with applying something so rich and lovely — it works either way.)

Sunday Riley Juno Hydroactive Cellular Face Oil, $90, available at Dermstore.

Or Try...

This blend of brown algae extract, camellia seed oil, and botanical extracts promises to give you a glow.

Tata Harper Beautifying Face Oil, $68, available at Sephora.

The vitamin C and marula oil in this formula will keep your complexion bright and fresh.

Nyakio Marula & Neroli Brightening Oil, $42, available at Ulta.

Get to Know Glycolic Acid
Renowned for both its resurfacing and purifying properties, glycolic acid helps regenerate the skin and treat pesky acne and blackheads. “It will also help with pore size and improve overall skin texture,” Vargas says. The best part? It comes from all sorts of delightful, naturally-sourced ingredients, so you can feel good about using it. (Yup, raspberries can help you battle wrinkles!) Start by using this product only on the nights you exfoliate, and then build your way up to once a night. You'll wake up with a glowing, polished visage.

Drunk Elephant T.L.C. Framboos Glycolic Night Serum, $90, available at Sephora.

The Mid-20s
Okay, so you’ve built the foundation for good skin. Congratulations! Now, it’s time to start getting a little more serious. Twenty-five is, in the beauty world, a tipping point: “By age 25, the skin has decelerated its repair mechanisms, and that affects your entire body,” says Dr. Lancer. This is also when you can accurately evaluate what damage has been caused — and, with the help of a dermatologist, plan how to treat it. “Everybody should be seeing a board-certified dermatologist at least once a year by this point in their life,” says Vargas. Together, you and your derm can discuss concerns like hyperpigmentation or hormonal acne. At the quarter-century mark, you should allow for splurges now and then, which means one thing: “Monthly facials are essential for detoxing the pores and doing a mini-peel,” Vargas says. “You should also look for a service that provides oxygen for the skin, which promotes healing.” And, this is just the beginning.

Keep Your Cleanser, But Upgrade Your Scrub
“The ‘no pain, no gain’ rule also applies to skin,” insists Dr. Lancer, whose Polish exfoliant is beloved by Victoria Beckham. “By your mid-20s, your skin is more like a couch potato: It has potential, but it’s lazy. This will help get it up and running." Try using this three times a week before bed in order to super-charge the rest of your routine. (There’s a formula for blemish-prone skin, too.)

As for the rest of your regimen? Make sure to maintain the nightly double-cleansing, the daily SPF, the eye cream, your oil, and your antioxidant moisturizer.



Lancer Skincare The Method Polish Exfoliator, $75, available at NordstromPhoto: Via Lancer.

Upgrade Your Serum
If you've ever wondered what the difference is between moisturizer and serum — or if there is one at all — here's your answer. “Moisturizer is for skin type, but serum is for skin condition,” explains Hirons. That means it's time to target whatever's given you complexion trouble with pumped-up ingredients, both in the morning and at night. Her recommendation? “Alpha-hydroxy acids will help to dry up hormonal breakouts and lightly exfoliate."

Kypris Clearing Serum, $67, available at Kypris.

“Antioxidants, like vitamin C, will help to protect and brighten spots and acne scars," Hirons adds. We love Eminence Organics Citrus Kale Potent C+E Serum for brightening and helping to strengthen skin. Not stressing over anything in particular? Keep clicking.

Éminence Organics Citrus Kale Potent C+E Serum, $110, available at Dermstore.

Even if fading dark spots and fending off acne aren’t at the top of your to-do list, you’re still not off the hook. Skipping serum means missing out on a great opportunity to infuse your skin with potent active ingredients, like damage-repairing antioxidants, collagen-boosting vitamin C, and radiance-enhancing vitamin E in this does-it-all formulation.

Caudalie Vine[Activ] Glow Activating Anti-Wrinkle Serum, $52, available at Sephora.

This radiance-boosting cocktail of antioxidants and hyaluronic acid will perk up a stress, tired complexion (so... everyone's) in a pinch.



Joanna Vargas Daily Serum, $85, available at Nordstrom

This vitamin C-packed serum gives such a good glow, you don't even need highlighter.

DermHA* Acne Skin Brightening Serum, $48, available at dermHA*.

Update Your Toner
You let go of the alcohol-based acne toners for a few years, but now you need to get serious. “Acid toning is essential, because it gives you a gentle, mild exfoliation,” Hirons says. This product, known among beauty junkies simply as “P50,” is what Hirons calls “the Rolls-Royce of toners.” She says to use it nightly, but we suggest easing into it: For the first few times, it tingles and stings, and might leave you a little pink. (It gets better — promise!) The reason? It has a high AHA content, which regulates oil production and maintains the skin’s pH level for a balanced, even complexion.



Biologique Recherche Lotion P50 1970, $57, available at Rescue SpaPhoto: Via Biologique Recherche.

Update Your Masks
Now’s the time to invest in an anti-aging treatment. But, is there one that can also help with pimples, just in case? “I’m a huge fan of lactic acid because it lightly exfoliates, but also minimizes the pores,” Vargas says. Her Exfoliating Mask (shown here) is a soon-to-be cult beauty product, beloved by her celebrity clients (and this writer). “It’s gentle enough that you can put it under your eyes for a quick pick-me-up,” she says. “Or, you can sleep with it on blemishes to treat them overnight.”



Joanna Vargas Exfoliating Mask, $75, available at Joanna Vargas

Add Night Cream
The days of one moisturizer are over: You have officially joined the legions of women who use night cream. “Sleep is an important time for the skin,” Vargas says. This is especially true if you’re using products like Polish and P50 — you'll need a healthy dose of moisture before bed when active ingredients are at play. “You can use just your facial oil, or you can put on a night cream and then an oil, depending on your skin type,” Hirons suggests. “But, start with something light, and avoid anything with shea butter — this one is gentle enough for daily use.”



Kate Somerville Nourish Daily Moisturizer, $20, available at Kate SomervillePhoto: Via Kate Somerville.

This overnight mask tightens skin as you sleep and drenches it with moisture, so you'll wake up looking a little more contoured than usual, and feeling a whole lot softer.

Fresh Black Tea Firming Overnight Mask, $92, available at Sephora.

The Late 20s
“By 29, you really need to get serious about stuff,” says Vargas. “Your skin goes through a complete transformation between the ages of 22 and 29. Your body’s ability to produce new skin cells slows down completely.” Look at your late 20s as an opportunity to really crack the whip on your complexion before the big 3-0: You can start using retinol, embrace plumping products, and learn how to protect your skin barrier in a major way. All of this hard work will hopefully delay the need for more serious things, like Retin-A and chemical peels, until they’re absolutely necessary. You should, however, see a facialist once a month for a peel and an LED light treatment, which will help maintain your skin's texture.

Update Your Cleanser (Again), Exfoliate Daily
We know: It’s the millionth time you’ll have done this in a decade, but a cleansing balm is totally worth it. “They destroy makeup without being stripping, and they still leave the skin feeling soft and supple,” Hirons says. She loves this one for an ultra-nourishing feel. But, if you're combination, you might prefer Nude's Cleansing Jelly, which is safe for eyes and face.

Unless you have sensitive skin, you should also try exfoliating every night. But, choose a cleanser-scrub hybrid, and save the Polish for the days in-between. Try Tata Harper Regenerating Cleanser.



Sarah Chapman Skinesis Ultimate Cleanse, $75, available at Bloomingdale'sPhoto: Via Sarah Chapman.

Tone More, Hydrate Smarter
Chances are, you’ve already interacted with hyaluronic acid during your skin journey. But, now it’s time to start using it regularly. The ingredient is well-known for its instant plumping effects. “It basically supercharges your moisturizer,” Hirons says. This is particularly important because you should, by now, be using acid toner both day and night to help regenerate your skin. “The hyaluronic acid will supercharge your moisturizer, protecting the skin’s barrier,” Hirons says. (It also makes applying makeup a total dream.)



Indeed Labs Hydraluron Moisture Booster, $36.99, available at AmazonPhoto: Via Indeed Labs.

Start Using Retinol, Keep Your Serum
“The king of all antioxidants is vitamin A, which is where prescription Retin-A comes from,” says Dr. Lancer. “It’s critically important, because products with retinoid acid reorganize the process known as keratinization, or the way the skin repairs and replaces itself.” But, as Vargas cautions, it can cause irritation among more sensitive types. So, try using this a few times a week before bed, and absolutely do not forget SPF the morning after. This is more of a precautionary method: Hirons says retinol isn’t really necessary until after age 30, but it can’t hurt to start a mild version (like this one) before then. To complement it, stick to your regular daily serum.



Arcona Vitamin A Complex, $68, available at ArconaPhoto: Via Arcona.

The Ordinary's retinol-packed formula fights early signs of early aging with less irritation. Plus, check out the price tag.

The Ordinary Advanced Retinoid, $10.50, available at Asos.

Update Your Eye Cream
It’s also time to get serious about treating eye wrinkles to prevent crow’s feet. “Vitamin C is a massively important antioxidant that gives advanced environmental protection,” Hirons says. Caudalie’s lightweight formula is jam-packed with the stuff — plus, it's gentle enough to use day and night.



Caudalie Polyphenol C15 Anti-Wrinkle Eye & Lip Cream, $49, available at CaudaliePhoto: Via Caudalie.

If you're tired of waking up to puffy eyes and dark circles, dab on a bit of this eye cream every night so your under-eyes look well-rested and bright.

RoC Multi Correxion 5 in 1 Eye Cream, $15.79, available at Target.

Update Your Face Oil
If your blackheads and acne are finally calming down, it’s wise to start experimenting with a different facial oil for twice-daily use. “Put it on over your night cream if you're dry,” Hirons suggests. This Rodin product is a rich — and fragrant — blend of 11 essential oils. (Bonus tip: Smooth one drop over your complexion before applying foundation, and you'll glow like a lightbulb.)

Rodin Jasmine Neroli Face Oil, $170, available at Rodin.

Photo: Via Rodin.

Update Your Night Cream
This liquid acts immediately, forming a cushion that protects the skin barrier from water loss. It'll serve as the ultimate soothing tool on your retinol days.

Dr. Jart+ Ceramidin Liquid, $39, available at Birchbox.

Photo: Via Ceramidin.

If Urban Skin Rx's name looks familiar, it's because you've likely seen it on the Instagram accounts of Teyana Taylor, Fantasia, and more. The brand was founded by licensed aesthetician Rachel Roff and uses plenty of ingredients like kojic and azelaic acids, which help with hyperpigmentation. "When we get samples, my staffers of all ethnicities try the products," she tells us. "That’s how we see what works and what doesn’t work, rather than participating in some 50 patient case study [of predominantly white women]."

Urban Skin Rx Even Tone Night Treatment, $68, available at Urban Skin Rx.

The Early 30s
You’ve made it. “By the time you’ve reached 30, your routine should really switch over to all anti-aging products,” Hirons says. “In this decade, things just slow down. I like to tell people that your body goes on a little holiday and then comes back! You laugh now, but by your 40s, it goes away — and you wonder if it’s ever returning!”

But, a whole lot of this is skin sensationalism: Being 30 means your skin is still at its prime, especially if you’ve been vigilant about daily SPF and proper cleansing. Still, it’s time to consult your dermatologist about facials — or possibly even twice-yearly acid-based peeling. (Only if necessary!) “If hyperpigmentation is a concern, you may want to look into light-resurfacing procedures with low-energy lasers twice to three times a year,” Dr. Lancer suggests.

If your skin’s in tip-top shape, all you need are a couple of upgrades to what you’re already doing. But, the pros caution, you should reconsider other things, like lifestyle choices: Think hard about forsaking cigarettes forever, limiting your alcohol intake, and curbing how much processed sugar you eat. “We look at women in Hollywood who have aged very well, [and] these people don’t have any caffeine or added salt, and their carb intake is low," Dr. Lancer says. "They’re proof that anti-aging really needs a multi-pronged approach."

Upgrade Your Retinol
This is a good age to start using Vitamin A daily, and you’ll want a more intense formula to get your glow going. “You should be using a product that contains 1% retinol,” Dr. Lancer says. “Anything more than that can be found in prescription Retin-A, which is more of a corrective treatment than a preventative one.” Use it before your bedtime moisturizer, so your skin has time to heal itself in case redness occurs. Consider daily polishing, too — morning and night, if your complexion can handle it.



SkinCeuticals Retinol 1.0, $63, available at SkinCeuticalsPhoto: Via Skinceuticals.

Invest In a Serum
Unfortunately, the more advanced skin care becomes, the more it costs. And, since serums deliver all the good stuff in the most essential, concentrated method, you might want to start considering formulas that are priced beyond what you’re used to spending. It boils down to this: If you splurge on one thing in your routine, let it be serum. Tata Harper’s range is spectacular, because it targets different concerns (lifting and firming, plumping, brightening) in formulas that are lightweight enough to use daily — even if you still get the occasional breakout. You should, however, still keep your hyaluronic-acid moisturizer and facial oils handy. (And, never forget SPF!)



Tata Harper Boosted Contouring Serum, $185, available at Tata HarperPhoto: Via Tata Harper.

Update Your Eye Cream
Getting religious about eye cream will also go a long way: one for day and one for night is best. AmorePacific’s duo is genius: The day version has SPF, so you’re protecting while hydrating. Meanwhile, the night formula increases turnover and restores collagen.



AMOREPACIFIC Future Response Age Defense Dual Eye Creme, $150, available at AmorepacificPhoto: Via AmorePacific.

Update Your Night Cream
Hirons says to avoid shea butters in your 20s. But, in your 30s: “You want something rich to sleep in.” If you massage a mask into your skin before bedtime, it'll go to work long after the label-suggested 10 minutes, which means you’ll wake up with refreshed and restored skin. Look for treatments labeled “healing,” since your routine now has a plethora of active ingredients at work. To put it simply: Serums and retinol deliver the good stuff, and moisturizer acts as a cushion. (Just consider this the most luxurious cushion ever.)



Chantecaille Jasmine and Lily Healing Mask, $79, available at NordstromPhoto: Via Chantecaille.

Invest In A Neck & Décolleté Cream
At this point, you know the importance of potent creams, serums, and masks, but you likely haven't given much attention to your neck and chest. “Many women in their twenties and thirties are using expensive face creams and coming in regularly for face-focused tweaks, but very few think to take care of their necks before 40,” says Paul Jarrod Frank, MD, a dermatologist in New York City.

To keep the thin skin supple and youthful-looking, reach for a treatment targeted to the area and containing ingredients like glycolic acid, calcium, and amino acids.

Dr. Brandt Do Not Age Firming Neck Cream, $67, available at Sephora.

Update Your Masks
Sheet masks are, essentially, thin paper cloths that have been soaked in serum. This one, which is doused in retinol, would be ideal to adapt into your routine on a weekly basis. Try it before bed, massage the excess into your skin and down the décolletage, and follow with a facial oil or your night cream.



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A Week In Pittsburgh, PA, On A $44,000 Salary

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Welcome toMoney Diaries , where we're tackling what might be the last taboo facing modern working women: money. We're asking millennials how they spend their hard-earned money during a seven-day period — and we're tracking every last dollar.

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Today: an accountant working in healthcare who makes $44,000 per year and spends some of her money this week on frozen Reese's cups.

Occupation: Accountant
Industry: Healthcare
Age: 23
Location: Pittsburgh, PA
Salary: $44,000
Paycheck Amount (2x/month): $1,233

Monthly Expenses
Rent: $850 for a one-bedroom apartment that I live in alone.
Car Payment: $160
Student Loan Payment: $165 for undergrad. (I have a loan from my grandmother for grad school that I will begin paying back after graduation.)
Health & Dental Insurance: $0 (I'm on my mom's plan.)
Doggie Daycare: $200 every five weeks for daycare twice a week
Hulu/Spotify: $12.99
Phone: $0 (My mom pays.)
Netflix: $0 (Mom also pays.)
Cable/Internet: $71
Gas: $20
Electric: $80-$100
401(k): I contribute 4%, and my employer matches.

Day One

6:30 a.m. — I drag myself out of bed and start getting ready for the day — do my hair and makeup, brush my teeth, and get changed. I get the coffee going as I take the dog for his morning walk. When I get back home, I make my lunch and head to work — a 30 to 40 minute drive, depending on traffic. I actually don't mind the commute, though. It gives me time to sip my coffee and get ready for the day.

8:30 a.m. — I get to work and then settle in at my desk. I answer emails I received over the weekend and then head down to the kitchen to make myself an English muffin with peanut butter and refill my coffee cup. (I keep English muffins and peanut butter at my desk, and my office supplies the coffee.)

12 p.m. — Lunchtime! Most of the time, we all eat at our desks, but once or twice a week we'll order delivery or go out. Today I heat up my leftover tortellini from dinner last night and snack on sweet potato chips.

4 p.m. — Well, it looks like Aunt Flow decided to make her appearance this month. I head to the market downstairs and buy myself frozen Reese's cups as a "yay, you're not pregnant!" treat. My boyfriend and I recently broke up, and even though I'm on the pill, a baby would have not been ideal right now. $1.50

5 p.m. — I'm out! I eat the granola cups I brought from home on my way out of work. I call my mom and we catch up on family gossip and the happenings of our lives. I try calling her a few times a week since I don't see her every day.

7 p.m. — I get home and walk my dog, then eat rice and veggies for dinner. I forgot to take the chicken out of the freezer before leaving for work this morning — oops! After dinner, I play with the dog and do some training with him. He was at the shelter for months and his previous owner didn't train him. I got him just a few months ago, but he is already lightyears ahead of where he was then! After training, the pup is tired and I get started on my paper for the week. I'm in an online Master's program and have one or two papers due every week.

10:30 p.m. — Get showered, brush my teeth, let the dog out, and then it's lights out!

Daily Total: $1.50

Day Two

6:45 a.m. — Finally get myself out of bed and start my morning routine. I have a mandatory online class tonight, so I take the pup to daycare. I take him twice a week — he loves it, and it lets me have two evenings a week where I can get a lot of school work done, go to a workout class, or do something with friends. He gets a punch on his 10-day daycare card.

9:45 a.m. — English muffin with peanut butter and coffee.

12 p.m. — Lunchtime! Today it's a sandwich with kettle chips. Very middle school of me, I know. I scroll through Instagram looking for a picture of my pup playing, but he doesn't make the daycare's feed today.

5 p.m. — Time to leave! I grab a banana on my way out. I have to stop at CVS to pick up my prescriptions and a daily fiber supplement that my doctor recommended to help with my IBS ($38.15) . I swing by Target to pick up a pizza crust for dinner ($3.97), and then head to the dog daycare to pick up the pup. $42.12

7 p.m. — I log in to a Skype session for class. I don't have to have my webcam on, so I eat my pizza while listening to the lecture. Afterwards, I go through my email and notice that my earnings from a recent sale on Poshmark have hit my account! I start looking for booties and find a pair I like, which I pay for using credits in my account from my previous sales. Score!

10:30 p.m. — I write some of my paper that's due Friday while tuning into This Is Us. I don't really pay much attention to the show, though. For some reason, this season isn't really pulling me in like the last two did. Then I take a shower, brush my teeth, take the pup out, and go to bed.

Daily Total: $42.12

Day Three

6:30 a.m. — First alarm goes off at 6:30 and I stay in bed to cuddle with the pup — he's in a snuggly mood this morning! I finally pull myself out of bed at 6:45 and do the usual morning routine, plus I add fiber supplement to my morning glass of water. It's orange-flavored and pretty gross. I'm hoping I'll be able to finish the container I got. I have a hair appointment tonight, so I take my pup to daycare on my way to work. Another punch on the pre-paid card.

9:30 a.m. — Time for my daily English muffin and peanut butter! I've been eating this for breakfast for about a year now and love it because it keeps me full until lunch.

12 p.m. — Today's lunch is leftover pizza and some dark chocolate I have at my desk. I scroll through Instagram and see that my pup made an appearance today! Such a proud dog mom moment.

2 p.m. — This past summer, I met with a financial advisor and one of his recommendations was to change my traditional 401(k) to a Roth 401(k). Since today is slow, I log into my employee portal and figure out how to change it. 20 minutes later, it's all set up. I am now contributing 4% to the Roth plan, and work is contributing 4% to my traditional plan. My advisor explained that having some contributions in both is a good way to get the best of both plans.

5 p.m. — Time to leave! On my way to pick up my pup, I stop at the ATM and take out $10. I am getting my hair cut tonight and they only take cash tips. When I get home, I quickly make gnocchi and head to my 7 p.m. appointment.

7 p.m. — My hair appointment takes about an hour. I have been going to the same stylist for years and trust her to always make me look and feel my best. We know the same group of people, so it's always fun to catch up. $50 (includes the tip)

8 p.m. — I stop at Target on my way home to pick up gum for my desk, tampons, and a wedding card for my college roommate's upcoming wedding. I got the gift when the registry first came out. $13.67

10:30 p.m. — After I get home from Target and my hair appointment, I take the pup for a quick walk before settling in to finish this paper. An hour and a half later, I have one paper submitted and have started the outline of the second paper. By 10:30, my internal clock is telling me that it's time for bed. I do my nightly routine and it's lights out at 11.

Daily Total: $63.67

Day Four

6:45 a.m. — Crawl out of bed. I'm not taking the pup to daycare today, so I take him for a short walk around my complex. Before leaving, I place a mobile order from Starbucks using a gift card I have. I swing by to pick it up on my way to work. I absolutely love mobile ordering, it is so quick and easy!

10 a.m. — Have my daily English muffin with peanut butter. I am a creature of routine.

11:30 a.m. — My coworkers and I decide to order lunch from our favorite delivery place. I get the buffalo chicken salad with a side of fries. I am a true Pittsburgher and can't have a salad without fries. $14

5:45 p.m. — Return home to find my Rent the Runway package has arrived! I ordered a dress for the wedding this weekend. I take the dog for a 45-minute walk and as soon as I get back, I try the dress on and absolutely love it! I like Rent the Runway for events like weddings and formals (tbt to my college days) because it gives me the chance to always wear something different and trendy, while sticking to my budget.

7 p.m. — I am obsessed with sheet pan dinners. They are so quick, easy, and healthy. I make one tonight using some leftover veggies from earlier this week and shrimp that I had in the freezer. So yummy!

8 p.m. — I log onto my Chewy account and order a 30-pound bag of dog food and a 24-pack of bully sticks. Then I look for an urn for my last puppy. When I got her last year, I noticed that she wasn't gaining any weight like the rest of her litter mates. It was a long year of constantly taking her to the vet and getting tests done. I found out she had stage four kidney disease and had to put her down just after her first birthday. I was going to order one from the company that cremated her, but they never answered my calls or emails. Sigh. I finally decide on one and get it engraved ($74.90). $162.98

10:30 p.m. — After watching a few episodes of Younger, my newest TV obsession, I do some training with the pup, shower, and head to bed.

Daily Total: $176.98

Day Five

6:45 a.m. — My snooze has already gone off twice, but my bed is warm and the dog is in a snuggly mood, so I stay in bed a little longer than I should. Then I do the usual morning routine and take the dog for a 15-minute walk. I order a coffee and donut from Dunkin' (I love ordering ahead) and get out the door relatively on time. I stop at the ATM to get out $10 for the Mega Millions pot we have a work — I will not be the only one who doesn't contribute and then get stuck working if we do win. Then, I swing by and pick up my coffee and donut. I pay with money that I had preloaded.

12 p.m. — I give the coworker in charge my $10 for the Mega Millions. We're doing $5 per entry, so I just decide I'll put my name down twice. Then we all go eat lunch in the cafeteria — it's Friday and it's been a long week. $10

4 p.m. — On Fridays we get to leave work any time after 3:30. I leave at 4 and head home to pick up the pup and a bottle of wine I got at a wine festival a few weeks ago and head over to my best friend's place. Her dogs and my dog get along so well, so we let them play while we talk about her wedding next summer. I'm the maid of honor and am so so excited! Her fiancé brings us pizza on his way home from work.

10:30 p.m. — I get home, but I'm not really tired. I decide to make some chocolate chip pumpkin muffins — a fall staple in my family. My friend signed me up for Bumble while I was at her place (that's how she and her fiancé met), so I decide to just give it a try and start swiping. After my muffins are done, I wash my face, brush my teeth, and head to bed around midnight.

Daily Total: $10

Day Six

9 a.m. — It's so nice to wake up without an alarm! I take the pup on an hour-long hike. He has become the best hiking buddy, and afterwards, he is wiped! I get back home, shower, make a sandwich for lunch, clean up the apartment, and get ready for the wedding.

2 p.m. — I love this one color of Revlon but can't find it in my makeup bag and I am running out of time. I also need safety pins to pin the straps of my dress. Based on the reviews on Rent the Runway, I knew the straps would most likely be too long. I stop at CVS to get some safety pins and lipstick. Once I'm ready and en route to the wedding, I call my brother to confirm that he is letting my pup out later this evening. $13.17

11 p.m. — The wedding was so fun! I went on my own, which was a little scary at first, but no way was I having my ex come with me, even though he was supposed to. I ended up knowing a lot of people and having a really good time.

Daily Total: $13.17

Day Seven

10 a.m. — Wake up and take the pup for a quick walk. I am talking the pup up to my mom and her fiancé's house, which is an hour north. They have a ton of off leash hiking trails, so we're all going to take our dogs out. I stop and get gas while I'm up here, since it's so much cheaper. $37.17

2:30 p.m. — All of the dogs had so much fun and are so worn out! I have a dog, and my mom and her fiancé each have two from before they met, so we took five dogs total out hiking. Afterwards, my mom and I head to the outlets near her house so I can look for a new winter jacket. I end up finding a cute everyday jacket and a nice leather moto jacket. I've been looking for a leather jacket for what feels like FOREVER. $139.54

6 p.m. — I get back home and log onto my laptop to order groceries. I am obsessed with Walmart's free grocery pickup. I order sweet potatoes, green beans, broccoli, carrot sticks, sandwich fixings, body lotion, kettle chips, granola cups, chicken breasts, ground beef, egg noodles, and iced tea. I pay now but schedule my pickup for tomorrow evening. $42.89

10:30 p.m. — I match with a cute guy on Bumble and we start messaging. It feels good to flirt again! I shower, let the dog out, and turn the lights out by 11 p.m.

Daily Total: $219.60

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17 Women Share The Biggest Money Lies They've Ever Told

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As honest as we all want to be about our financial situations, sometimes a little white lie creeps in every now and then: Maybe you can't afford that dinner your friends are going to, and it's less embarrassing to say you have the flu. Maybe you slightly exaggerate your paycheck to friends in either direction, so no one knows you're the worst paid — or even highest paid — of the bunch. Or maybe you lie to your partner about the shoes you just bought or the amount of debt you've racked up on your credit card.

In any case, talking about money is awkward, and no one gets it right 100% of the time. But it's easier to learn from those mistakes when you reflect on them. So, we asked our readers: What's the biggest money lie you've ever told?

The biggest lie I've ever told about loans and debt...

"How much I have on credit cards. My husband has no clue. " — Katie, 36

"I always implied I had student loans when my friends brought it up during undergrad. They all had massive loans while I was #blessed to have my undergraduate degree covered by my parents. My master's degree, on the other hand, is all on me." — Allison, 26

"Student loans are really embarrassing to me. I have about $130,000 in student loans and when people ask, I just say I have a lot. My mom doesn’t even know how much. My husband is the only one. I say that I have about $100,000, and even that makes people feel bad for me. I just chalk it up to having a bachelor's and two master's degrees. " —Rebekah, 28

"My parents paid for my entire education, so I have no student loans. But I feel very awkward around my friends who complain about their loans, so I lie and agree with them that paying back loans is the worst. " —Julia, 25

"How much credit card debt I had — when I first met my now husband (who has never had credit card debt), I told him a significantly lower number. I paid it off before we got married." —Samantha, 29

"Not disclosed my debt (to friends/family), which at the time was around $40,000." —Brooke, 29

The biggest lie I've ever told about receiving or giving family financial assistance...

"That I'm self-sufficient. My closest friends make more than double my salary and talked about money often when we all graduated and got jobs. They would always make comments about being on their own and not taking anymore help from their parents. I would never add my salary to the conversation but would just agree about how great it is to be independent. The truth is that my parents still give me money every month, pay for my car insurance, car registration, and phone bill, and I use their Amazon Prime. And whenever I go home, they always give me cash and pay for my gas or flight. It's the worst feeling knowing people your age or younger are already more financially independent than you are." — Nicole, 24

"That we didn't have the money to 'loan' a relative who had 'borrowed' from us twice before and never paid back." —Courtney, 31

"My in-laws asked to borrow a large sum of money to pay for an attorney for my brother-in-law regarding custody of his child with the child’s mother. We didn't agree with the circumstances, and said we didn’t have the money. To be honest, we had great concern about their ability to pay it back." —Vivi, 36

"I lie about my parents helping me pay for everything while I'm living at home. I quit my corporate job and moved home to start my own business a couple of months ago. I used all of my savings (and then some) for the costs of setting up an LLC, advertising, getting a space ready, and more. My friends think I do everything on my own, and at this point I feel like I can't let them know the truth, because none of them get financial help from their parents. One of my friend's parents even charge him rent for living in their home. I'm in a completely different situation and trying my best to gather enough money so that I can be financially independent, because I not only feel guilty for lying, I also need my parents to stop watching all of my spending habits so closely. I feel like I'm 14 again. " —Emily, 23

The biggest lie I've ever told about my spending habits...

"My husband and I make over $120,000 a year and have over $40,000 in savings, but I always tell coworkers 'sorry, I'm broke' when they want to get lunch. I don't want to spend $10 on a sandwich when I can eat the one I brought from home! It just feels silly to me." —Becca, 24

"I spend a good amount of money on things like food, drinkware, and stationery, so I take the price tags off the things I buy before I go home, just in case my mom asks how much something is. And the answer is always 'mahal' ('expensive' in Tagalog), so she knows better than to ask again." —Aines, 27

"My mom told me to buy a piece of salmon for dinner. I went to the local market, which is high quality but very expensive. I told the guy at the fish counter that I wanted a piece of salmon and pointed at the first one I saw, without checking the price. After he picked it up and weighed it, I realized it was wild and freshly caught — one piece for $30!!!!! He had already wrapped it up for me, so I just went ahead and paid for it. I later told my mom that it was 'too expensive' without mentioning a price. If she checked her credit card statement, my plan was just to tell her I bought some other stuff along with the salmon." —Liza, 21

"How much I spent while studying abroad. I supported myself through college, and having experiences abroad was important to me. Some people may view the expenses I incurred as absurd — it really was a lot. But I firmly believe that the experience was transformative, and it was my decision to make. " —Andrea, 22

"When I was hired at the same company my friend works at, I made the mistake of telling my friend where they placed me on the pay scale. Turns out it was a lot more money than her, even though she’d been there longer. I felt that it put a strain on our relationship, so I said that they’d adjust my salary (not saying if it would be more or less) and that it would all be okay because I know how to budget. Hopefully I was convincing enough." — K, 32

The biggest lie I've ever told when it comes to paying for housing...

"My lucky and fortunate boyfriend owns our $1.2 million apartment and I live rent-free, but I tell everyone we rent our place from an out-of-state landlord for $3,500 a month. This sounds better, considering we're only 24, and I don't want other people to feel uncomfortable about it, especially if they look up the price." —Sarah, 24

"I told my parents the money they were giving me for our down payment wasn’t going towards debt, but I ended up having to use some of it to pay down debt, otherwise I wouldn’t have qualified for my mortgage. " —Candice, 35

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Plenty of people have a tendency to think that if a skin-care product makes your face feel like it's on fire, then it's working. And if it leaves a tingling feeling afterwards and a flushed, irritated face, then it must be really working. Because we love you and care about your skin, we're here to tell you that that's wrong, and that your skin care really shouldn't be leaving you will full-blown lobster face.

“No pain, no gain is a terrible motto when dealing with your face,” says Lucile White, MD, a dermatologist in Houston, Texas. Skin care should not sting, tingle, or burn on a daily basis. If it does, you’ll get redness, peeling, and flaking. “Those are signs of chronic inflammation,” says Karyn Grossman, MD, a dermatologist who practices in New York and Santa Monica. In other words, your skin ain’t happy, and inflamed skin will develop a cascade of other issues — dryness, tightness, and increased sensitivity.

But here is what’s confusing: Many proven skin-care ingredients, like acids and retinoids, might in fact sting, and in that particular case, they're supposed to. For products like those, tingling can be okay if it is short (three seconds or less) and intermittent (not daily).

So, how do you know if feeling the burn is the good kind or the bad? Ahead, the pros explain how to keep from getting burned by your skin care, and we offer you some recommendations for gentle products that won't leave your face super irritated.

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When You Use An Exfoliator Or Scrub
The tip off here is the word “acid.” Any face wash, peel pad, scrub, or mask with alpha-hydroxy, glycolic, lactic, or salicylic acids might cause some tingling. ‘The sensation could be because of their acidic pH or the concentration of the acid,’ says Dr. Grossman. The feeling should be fleeting. And again, tingling on a daily basis spells trouble for your skin. So if your weekly peel pad stings a bit, that’s fine. But if your every day face wash does, find a replacement, stat.

Scrubs that slough with grains and microbeads shouldn’t sting, unless they’ve been formulated to be “energizing” or “fresh” feeling, which means generally created with the addition of menthol.

After sloughing, be a watchdog with the rest of your skin care. That top layer of dead skin had to go, but with that newly uncovered complexion “other products you’re currently using might seem a little more potent or a little more irritating,” explains Dr. White.

Illustrated by Anna Sudit.

When You Use A Face-Cleansing Brush
It’s a powered brush, not a power tool, and washing your face with one shouldn’t feel any rougher than using a washcloth. “The machine is doing all the work,” says Dr. Grossman. “All your hands should be doing is gently holding it to your skin. Don’t do that and scrub. People love to scrub too hard." Don't press the brush into the skin or mechanically scrub with it. The brush has a motor for a reason — it will do all the hard work for you.

If you’re feeling any kind of tingling or burning, back off. “You’re scrubbing off too much of your skin,” says Dr. White. Either you’re using the tool too aggressively, or you’ve paired it with an exfoliating cleanse or scrub, and the combo is more sloughing than your skin can safely handle. The fix is easy: Switch to a mild cleanser like one from CeraVe or Cetaphil.

Illustrated by Anna Sudit.

When You Use A Toner
These grease-soppers generally don’t sting. “Alcohol evaporates quickly and feels so cooling,” says Dr. Grossman, a short-lived sensation that’s akin to a tingle. But, you may very well feel nothing at all, unless your skin is inflamed from, say, acne treatments. If you feel more than that, check the ingredients: Some toners these days contain mild acids to slough skin, too.

Of course if your male roomie ‘borrows’ your toner, that’s another story. On shaven skin with any cuts or abrasions, alcohol can prickle, as does witch hazel.

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When You Zap A Zit
Speaking of acne treatments, this is where overdoing it leads to some not-so-pretty results. And let’s face it, we have a tendency to attack every zit like it’s the ex that broke our heart. Why this backfires: Zit-zappers can seriously dry skin with one of two active ingredients, benzoyl peroxide or salicylic acid. Salicylic acid is designed to get oil out of pores and might sting, especially if you put it on a picked pimple. Benzoyl peroxide shouldn’t sting, but again, parches skin and could lead to peeling over time. Use too many acne treatments with these actives or simply use them in too strong a concentration, and they turn skin dry, flaky, and tight.

Rather than pile on more irritating ingredients, if you are experiencing post-acne treatment irritation, try using a more calming formulation that features anti-microbial ingredients, like Anakiri's Restore Propolis Balm.

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When You Use A Clearing Mask
Pore-degunkers use mud, made of silica, to pull impurities out of skin, and they’re usually sting-free. If your skin is smarting, “it’s likely just the feeling of something drying on your skin, and your skin feeling tighter,” says Dr. White.

In keeping with the ‘no pain, no gain’ motto, though, formulators may spike these with ingredients like menthol, that you will feel. The sensation is meant to give the impression the mud is working. But on its own, mud is not an irritant.

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When You Use A Night Cream
Moisturizers are designed to feel good, but anti-agers are another story. The gold standard class of anti-aging ingredients are vitamin A derivatives called retinoids. Retinoic acid is the prescription form, and retinol is what you’ll find in over-the-counter creams. Given their proven track record of reducing wrinkles, fading dark spots, and refining pores, it’s not a huge surprise that these are pretty widespread in creams.

These can sting a bit, and if you dive into using too much of these right off the bat, you could get some nasty redness and peeling. “Start off using one every third night. And in a month, if your skin tolerates that (no dryness, redness, or peeling), then increase to every other night. And the month after that, if your skin is doing well, increase it to every day,” Dr. Grossman says. This process can feel like a serious exercise in delayed gratification, but these are long-term players. Spot fading and wrinkle reducing take time.

Otherwise, a basic moisturizer (with glycerin or hyaluronic acid) or an anti-aging night cream with active ingredients like peptides shouldn’t cause any stinging. One more ingredient to watch out for: the antioxidant vitamin C or ascorbic acid can cause a tingle for some.

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When You Use An Eye Cream
Steer clear of any kind of burning here. “The skin around your eyes is some of the thinnest skin on your body. Eye cream that stings, and continues to sting for minutes after you apply, is causing an irritant reaction. Wash it off, or you could end up with red raccoon eyes,” advises Dr. White.

The one exception is a retinol eye cream. Retinol, as we’ve already mentioned, does cause some stinging, and needs to be slowly incorporated in a skin-care routine. But if you have prolonged stinging or turn red, wash it off. Your skin simply may be too delicate for it.

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When You Use A Product With Sunscreen In It
“Don’t tolerate any stinging from a sunscreen,” says Dr. White. Why? The ingredients we’ve spotlighted so far — acids, retinoids, benzoyl peroxide, menthol — are all irritants. Dump too much of these too often on any person’s skin, and it will flare-up. Most of us can use a sunscreen without a hitch, so a reaction to anything with SPF in it is likely a skin allergy. A trip to the derm can suss out the culprit for sure (well, make that multiple trips: patch testing generally takes three visits).

But as chemical sunscreen is a common allergen, says Dr. White, an easy at-home fix is to switch to a daily sunscreen with titanium dioxide or zinc oxide, minerals that usually don’t cause reactions. Try SkinCeuticals Physical Fusion UV Defense SPF 50 (super sheer with a light tint) or Neutrogena Pure & Free Liquid Sunscreen Broad Spectrum SPF 50 (also incredibly sheer).

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SOS Solution
So you’re red and peeling? Don a baseball cap, big sunglasses, and head to the nearest drugstore to pick up a 1% hydrocortisone cream, an anti-inflammatory.* Also, buy a creamy, gentle cleanser and cream. Go home, and start your next Netflix binge. For two days, apply a thin layer of the hydrocortisone cream morning and night — and nothing else. Use the gentle cleanser, or if even that hurts, cleanse with water alone. On day three, baby your skin with the plain cleanser and cream morning and night, and keep that up 'til your skin calms down.

Once your skin looks normal again, restart your skin care and makeup regimen. If you know the culprit was going too hard with the acne treatments or Retin-A, you can use these again — just less of them, and way less often. If you think you had an allergic reaction to something — maybe the fragrance of your new serum? — toss the product. If you really want to get to the bottom of a potential allergy, you can take the offender to your dermatologist for examination, and sign up for patch testing.

*See a dermatologist or your primary care doctor for a prescription-strength cortisone if you feel your skin is in especially bad shape (the kind of aftermath that elicits stares from strangers or has your friends asking, ‘What happened to you?’).

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Last month though, Urban Outfitters put some skin in the game. The brand launched its own beauty line called Ohii, a 13-product collection that boasts minimal-yet-cutesy products like "Gummy Gloss" and "Glass Powder." If you couldn't tell from the product's whimsical names, the brand fits right in with the other products in Urban Outfitter's arsenal.

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